I really liked the episode, but it didn’t feel like a season finalé at all.
That said, I would have been very, very disappointed if things had suddenly turned into a bloodbath. The “happy Christmas family” ending fits in perfectly with how the season began: Tony, on at least some level, really does appreciate life more now. He was sincerely enjoying spending quality time with his family and friends. It seems cliché because it’s exactly what most people do on Christmas. There wasn’t anything even remotely mob-related about that last scene. It was just an extended family enjoying Christmas together.
Which, of course, makes it rather dull in one sense. Most of us have had similar Christmases with our families. They might be fun for us, but they wouldn’t be all that interesting for outsiders to watch on TV. What makes the scene interesting (for me) is not that it’s so normal, but that it’s so normal despite who these people are and what they’ve done.
Season 4 ended not with bloodshed, but with a divorce. This disappointed some fans who wanted to see people die and stuff. But in my opinion, that was arguaby the best season finalé of them all. I think that the writers were attempting something even more daring with this episode. Not only were they avoiding bloodshed, they were avoiding destructive emotional drama as well.
It’s a show about the family and The Family, both dysfunctional in their own ways, but season six ended with Tony giving a sincere plea to Phil to love his fellow man (in a non-Vito sort of way). Then he celebrated Christmas with those he loves. Oh, and he handles Chris’ actions and lies with respect to Julianna with nothing more than general grumpiness.
I can definitely understand why some viewers might feel let down. But I enjoyed seeing Tony Soprano being, if not a good person, at least a better one.
Other random thoughts:
If we didn’t know before, we now know that A.J. was born on July 15. (The day Jesse Ventura was born.)
Uncle Junior tells Bobby that the money was a gift for him and Karen. Ouch.
Great exchange between Uncle Junior and that one lady:
“You can make a hand-turkey.”
“For Christmas? Fucking idiot.”
A.J. might not be the smartest guy around, but I think we’ve seen that Tony was at least partially right about him. He’s a (comparatively) “good” person. If Tony were in that situation at A.J.'s age, he would have bashed some skulls in. A.J. tried the diplomatic approach.
A.J.'s girlfriend: I’d hit that.
Also, it’s interesting how accepting Tony was of her compared to Carmela. He could just have a double-standard that it’s ok for his son to date someone of a different race, but not ok for his daughter. However, he might have genuinely changed his attitude since Meadow was dating the “Hassidic Homeboy”.
The title of this episode was “Kaisha”. This is the name Chris makes up for his imaginary black girlfriend. Is the significance of the title that Tony doesn’t blow up at Christopher over the lie? (At least, not to the extent one might have suspected.) Or that his views on race have softened? Both? Something else?