Just a thought, but there does seem to be a correlation between quality of life and democratic states and standard of living. Or at least those states that have democratic for a significant amount of time.
I know little about Slovakia, but if your experience is anything like the other countries of the former Communist bloc, I can understand your pessimism.
But I live in a democracy old enough that it gets taken for granted – 134 years to be precise, 83 of which we’ve had universal adult suffrage. I live in the country’s second-largest city, and feel fairly safe walking almost any part of it at 3am. I do not feel I’ve sacrificed my security for my freedom. I think rather we’ve found a balance of security here – I do not have to be afraid of people on the streets, nor do I need fear (usually) my government.
As for the US, they’re a case to themselves. They’re in the grip of radical ideologies such as the “right to bear arms” and a fear of taxation. Here in Canada, most of us have never seen a handgun, let alone had one pointed at us.
I have known more than a few people who left behind countries held by dictators – of both the fascist and the communist varieties. I think most of them would disagree with your assesment of security in a less-than-democratic society. I know I consider myself very, very fortunate that I can disagree with the government, that I can make point about morality, and feel safe.
Police states will usually be better about cleaning up street because they spread their nets wide – and catch plenty of innocents in the process. I know I wouldn’t want any part of that kind of security.
It’s been a while since I’ve had a history class, but I seem to recall that Nazism was losing popularity at the time Hitler became chancellor. According to my History of the Modern World Since 1815, the Nazis had lost 2 million votes and 34 seats in the last election. This alarmed the aristocrats who were worried that, if the decision was left to the People, the Communists would take power, and two of these aristocrats, Franz von Papen and General Kurt von Schleicher, convinced President Hindenburg to appoint Hitler to stem the tide of Communism. In the final election, the Nazis won only 44% of the vote.
Hitler made it perfectly clear that his National Socialism was intended as an alternative to democracy. Except for the racist ideology, it was modelled on Mussolini’s “corporate state.” An aspect of the war that’s often forgotten these days is that the participants saw it primarily as a war about democracy – those who rejected it versus those who supported it.
So bringing Hitler up, in this context, undermines your point. What I see there was a newly-minted democracy whose elites, mostly aristocrats, ran for totalitarianism at the first sign of socio-economic problems. The tragedy is the result.