Your description sounds very much like the large group of spiders found al over the world, which I know under the general name of garden orb weavers. arachnologus will know your species far better than I do. I’ll take a guess at Araneus sp. - the same genus as the famous Charlotte.
Our local version, in Melbourne Australia, is Eriophora biapicata. They vary in colour and markings enormously. The young hatch in not long after the mother lays the eggs in their sac, and make their little tiny orb webs. Each day they take them down just before sunrise. Each night the make them again. By the end of summer, the orb itself can be up to a metre across, with the guy ropes and structure much larger.
I was an arachnophobe who started studying and watching spiders to overcome the fear. Well into the process, I located a garden orb weaver. The night I first saw her make her web form beginning to end is the night I changed form beign a recovering arachnophobe to a totally obsessed arachnophile. It was extraordinary - much better than the sped up version you see on TV.
I watched her each night, but could not find her in the day. She did leave a single strand across the gap and reuse that if it was still there the next night. Eventually it drove me mad that I couldn’t find her, so I went out just before sunset and watched. A small piece of bark stood up, tugged at her main strand, walked out on it, and made her web. From then on she was easy to see. I usually manage to find the owners of garden orb webs these days by hunting near the end of their main strand if it survives into the day.
I have put some images of my garden orb weavers in their rest positions on my Spiderbloggers website:
http://www.lynnekelly.com.au/spiderbloggers/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=124
If this URL goes funny, then just go to www.lynnekelly.com.au/spiderbloggers and to Orb Weavers, then to garden orb weavers, and the new topic - garden orb weaver photos.
They are both the same species, both female, but very different colours. This should help you recognise the shape of one resting during the day. They can often look a different colour to their version on the web! I hgad one pale one who managed to look black during the day.
Your orb weaver is probably very near and well within sight, just wonderfully camouflaged. Enjoy watching her!