[QUOTE=t-bonham@scc.net]
I’d suggest that it’s a lot cheaper, and more effective in the long run, to spend time with your kids, and teach them that un-nice things out there in the world (from porn to violent video games to obscene lyrics in songs) that they will eventually encounter. If they are expecting this, and have developed their own sense of right and wrong, they will be able to encounter such things without being distracted from living a good life.
So I’d say to spend that money & energy on your kids, rather than ‘nanny’ software. (Most of which is notoriously ineffective & biased anyway, from what I’ve heard.)
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While in general I agree with this, and I trust my kids on the internet, my son (at 11) complained that some of the kid oriented sites he visited had typosquatters pushing gay porn - and my son is dyslexic with a spelling problem. The point was he asked for a solution because he was disturbed by this, not because I was (I was angry at the typosquatting scumbag who owned those sites, but he got his in the end - he was prosecuted). But there is also an issue about when you let your kids grow up and face the big bad world, vs overprotecting them. And sometimes, parents want to take additional steps.
I used squidguard - a linux web filtering system with a k12 friendly filter list that I could actually check - and happily whitelisted sites my kids asked for. It worked to stop mistakes, and some idle curiosity, but like any filter, it was not perfect, if someone was seriously looking. But that was not the problem.
Now they are older the situation is different. I don’t filter, but I will make it clear that (like in any workplace) the server logs web access, particularly the PCs in their rooms, and those logs are checked (if we remember, and my wife can check the logs of my internet use, too). Those PCs are a balance, the kids need them for homework, and they require internet access, but they are less visible than the public PC in the study. So some caution is required. But I don’t check emails or chat logs - 'cause in general I have good, smart kids who know about appropriate behavior and do actually talk to their parents. And they are teenagers now, and deserve privacy.
But I won’t criticize anyone who wants to filter their own personal or family internet access, even though I disagree with it and the biased, secretive way the filtering suppliers work.
Si