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Completely agree. We no longer leave feedback until after the buyer has.
We did originally, but as a seller it leaves you open to scams, blackmail and fraud. e.g. a case (this was not on ebay fortunately) where a gentleman received the goods, we left positive feedback, and then he tried to demand we gave him money on top or he would neg us. Unfortunately for him, we’d documented everything including his email demand. Purely blackmail and he got banned - apparently legal action was taken by the site as he tried this with another seller - but its still a problem. If it had been ebay, ebay does not remove feedback, apparently even under those circumstances.
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Well, like I said "2. Do not become a disgruntled seller. Yes, sooner or later some asshole on eBay is going to screw you- give you an unjustified NEG or demand an unreasonable refund, etc. Do not let that run the rest of your life make you treat all future customers like assholes. That sale, that asshole, is over and done with.
" Leaving FB first leaves you no more “open to scams, blackmail and fraud” than leaving FB later, unless you really think the ability to leave a Retalitory NEG is some sort of protection from “scams, blackmail and fraud”. eBay will remove FB under certian circumstances.
SomeUserName"I hate auctions that do not tell me the shipping cost up front. The “shipping is determined by location after auction is won” will make me not buy. I want to know up front." Absolutely.
Hey and I would like to take a small hijack and ask everyone opinion on what to do about FB for a seller who did this.
Anyway, the seller mostly sells baseball cards. I bought some other stuff from him. Now he does have a link which shows the S&H charges for various amounts of Baseball cards, but it doesn;t say how much other items are. I “won” the auction, then inquired what the S&H was. He replied with a $9 amount. I paid. He then said it was 14, and insisted I pay him the extra. I did, but the payment went to his personal Paypal account, so he was unable to access it (I send the via CC), so he said he would let it default back to me. Then the package arrived, and the Postage was $4.60. I emailed him on this and he left a bunch of confusing replies, including a new link where the prices were now quoted for other items. In the end he said “I simply charge what it costs t handle, sort figures, etc,etc - long story.”
Now, he did send me prompt POS FB, so I am not going to NEG him. But I am debating between no FB at all, or a Neutral, with the issue about S&H spelled out.
Thoughts?