Basically what the title asks. How loudly should an apartment dweller be able to hear one’s neighbor’s stereo how late at night? And, if there are any limits, what exactly should the neighbor do about it?
I’ve been living in an apartment for the past 1.5 years, after 20+ years in houses, so I feel a little “out of” whatever might be current apartment etiquette/courtesy. Over New Years a couple moved in next door who like their music and TV much louder than their predecessor. So far I have not said anything to them or management.
Yesterday (a Tuesday, in case that matters), I got home around 4, and the stereo was at the louder range of normal. A mix of classic and hard rock at a volume such that I could readily make out the songs I knew through the walls. Some Boston, Bad Co., Pink Floyd… By 7 or so, the volume seemed to have lowered, such that I could easily hear the basslines, but would have had to listen very hard to make out the songs. It continued at that level until I went to sleep sometime after 9.
I woke up around 12:45, and it was (still?) playing at the same level. Continued until I was able to get back to sleep sometime after 1:30.
Should I have said something yesterday? If so, exactly what should I have said, and when?
Happy to provide any additional details you wish. And I readily admit that one reason I have not said anything yet is that I suspect I am somewhat unusual (unreasonable?) in my noise preferences. I love loud music in my car and clubs, but in my apartment I like it very quiet. I understand I could wear ear plugs or turn on music of my own, but I prefer not to.