Mrs. ShibbOleth, amusingly, finds female homosexuality “normal” and male homosexuality abnormal. She has an illogical basis for this, something like “two positives together don’t make sense”. I’ve tried to explain to her that perhaps these are false positives, but to no effect. Ironically, though she finds female homosexuality natural she thinks that cunnilingus is dirty and at least a bit unnatural. :: shrug :: Note: this all pertains to the sexual acts themselves, she’s very openminded about other people’s rights to these acts and relationships
As far as guys noticing when other guys are attractive: I can, and I think most other men can, tell when a guy is attractive when it’s blatantly obvious. This is because we are following a societal norm (although some men’s appeal, i.e., Leonardo DiCaprio still throws me for a loop). But I can tell you that most women would find George Clooney or thinksnow attractive. Yet I don’t find them attractive, personally (sorry ts) in a physical or sexual kind of way. Some men are attracted to other men in a more same-sex crush (a la Seinfeld) kind of way, e.g., he’s the kind of guy I’d like to hang out with. This is where we normally find our friends. But for me it’s a stretch to go from that to a physical relationship. And often these men are not the same. In fact I’ve known men (and women) who were physically attractive yet had loathsome personality traits that would keep me far from any type of relationship, physical or platonic. I’ve had gay men make passes at me and while I found the attention flattering there was never any kind of physical spark that would have tempted me to be receptive to the overture.
Sorry, there’s no point or deep insight here, just personal observations on the subject.