The one thing you’ll learn quickly about weight training is simple. CHANGE is what makes muscles grow.
It is true you don’t gain muscle while working out but you gain when you rest. How long you rest it, MUST vary.
Your body will always take the line of least resistance. If you do a routine and rest for 24 hours between workouts that’s great. But you know what. After about two weeks your body adapts to that and you’ll start noticing your progress slows or stops.
Why? 'Cause you’re body is adapting. It doesn’t matter what your routine is the important thing is you don’t do that routine for any more than 2 weeks. The key to real growth is keep your routines varied because your body will adapt and take the line of least resistance.
Why do you get muscles? Because your body is taking the easiest way out. If you lift a weight your body says “Ok we’ll this is dumb but we’ll cope with it.” If you keep lifting the weight, your body says “OK enough of this, let’s make the muscle bigger so we don’t have to use so much energy to move it.”
As for soreness, you should feel a “discomfort” after you work out, but pain? I don’t think so. A discomfort says “there was a slight tear in the muscle and your body will rebuild it.”
A good general guildine is within an hour after working out with weight you should not be feeling any discomfort. Another good guildline is if you over do it. ONE SINGLE DOSE of aspirin or Tylenol or ibuprofen should stop the pain. If after one does, like four or six hours later you still hurt and the OTC pain med didn’t work, you messed up and did something wrong.
Two other hints I can add is look at people who have nice bodies and see what they are doing. And try to copy them. Also at the gym find machines no one uses. You know why no one uses them, because they are hard to use. These are the machines that will vary your routine, as I said "it’s not really your routine that matters, as much as doing a different routine and mixing it up from week to week.
People say don’t do too much too fast 'cause you’ll hurt yourself, get discouraged and quit.
The only real warning I have is free weights. If you feel you must use them get a personal trainer or an experience friends. I have just seen SO MANY people chip teeth and break toes because of free weights. They are good but you have to know how to use them. A couple of sessions with a personal trainer is much cheaper than capping a chipped tooth.