you know having mother that should of never had kids i always wondered what it was like to have normal parents now i realize i should of appreicated my mother more althouhg she did make me do a few things i didnt want to to ie dishes and laundry and after a few years even most of that ended
my mother was like someones favorite aunt she let you do 90 percent of what ever you wanted when you wanted to do it
good for a once a year visit maybe raising kids i wouldnt think so
the schools and social services never approved of this attitude either althouhg every kid on the block was usually at out house
of course it was amusing when my step dad pointed out to me on my 18th and 21 birthday that they werent any special ocassions since i had been doing those things since i was 14 anyways
the only downside is shed occasionaly forget she had offspring and would leave us somewhere or soemthing like that or in a conversation have to remeber who we were and where we were
but even though my mom was a certified space cadet knew nothing of housekeeping and such reading some some of these posts make me glad i had her

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