Yeah, it really comes across as “Well, rape is no big deal and some women lie about it, so we don’t need to hear about it.”
Which is similar in that last respect to the Trans thread (“we don’t want to hear about it”) and a lot of complaints from racists (“We don’t want to hear about it”) and on and on.
Don’t give a fuck if you don’t want to hear about it. The rest of us are tired of being told to shut up about injustices we can most certainly do something about.