As the joke on “Between Two Ferns” went, it might not have been a great idea to have the ACA website done by the guy who developed the Zune.
The difference between this an ACA is
The ACA is not an abstraction to its opponents; to many of them it affects their health care. Even if the affect is positive, neutral or only mildly negative, they see it.
Gay marriage is almost completely abstract to those who aren’t in one. Speaking as a person who lives in a place it was recently legalized, and where there was a lot of opposition to it, what happens is that the issue dies quickly because the opponents of it don’t continue to actively perceive it. Frothing-at-the-mouth Christian fundamentalists aren’t being invited to same sex weddings. Their congregations have no “out” gay people, or if they do they’re quickly expelled and disowned. It’s hard to be opposed to something that just happens when you’re not looking and isn’t even in the news anymore.
The implementation of ACA went on and on and on and was plagued with problems. Which you’d have to expect, given the titanic size of the program; you’d have trouble even explaining what the ACA bill does in less than a hundred words.
This, by comparison, is a fait accompli. There is no massive program to roll out. Gay marriages were mostly not legal yesterday, and now they’re legal. There’s nothing more to do. The issue is as dead as Julius Caesar. There is no realistic path to making gay marriage illegal in the United States again.
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Because people sometimes value a social issue over a matter of economic policy.
I really *enjoyed *being straight-married for all those years. It’s a real shame the nancyboys had to go and ruin it.
No, my marriage just became stronger and more meaningful, because the institution itself is now stronger and more meaningful. We are all better off today.
I agree. That’s what’s been happening here in Minnesota. Our Legislature passed & the Governor signed a marriage equality law (41 years after our Democratic-Farmer-Labor Party Platform endorsed it, back in 1972). Most rural areas opposed this, and Republicans used this (and poor turnout) to win elections in 2014, but the opposition is moderating.
This is largely the effect of knowing GLBT people – friends & family – who are getting married. After years of abuse, many GLBT people (and their parents) are making sure all their relatives are invited to the wedding. Once you’ve been to the wedding of a nephew, and seen that’s it’s just like any other wedding, and that he’s marrying a good Catholic boy with a job, etc. it’s much harder to be extremely anti-gay marriage. You might still say you’re opposed, but you won’t work very hard at it.
That’s what I think too. Particularly when plagues of locusts fail to appear. At (from the Republicans’ perspective) best, it will deprive the Democrats of a couple of issues they can use to drive turnout.
I see from Facebook that Williamson County, Texas, is having such problems already.
Following this to its logical conclusion, is the only reason that antimiscegenation laws are unconstitutional is because of the history of slavery…and otherwise they would be A-okay?
Ok, I have questions. Aside from a bunch of tax and property issues, are there other advantages a gay person may gain by having a legally recognized marriage?
For instance, is there a state somewhere that prohibits discrimination against married couples versus singles? I recall hearing about a number of real estate developments a while back that were marketed as for young singles, and there were no doubt legal challenges to them. But I never heard about any outcomes.
So maybe somewhere a state passed a law to prevent that. If that happened, would a gay couple get some perks out of that law?
More likely to get a marriage proposal from Rachel Maddow than an request for advice from Antonin Scalia.
What I’m wondering about right at this moment is why this thread is bumped every few minutes while the one about the ACA droops. Don’t know what that means, or even if it means anything at all.
There are tons of benefits from marriage, many of which are difficult or impossible to replicate otherwise. Hospital visitation and inheritance just to name two. Unmarried people can often have difficulty seeing their partner in the hospital if they are critically injured, because they are not considered family. The same goes for end-of-life decisions in the absence of a living will, inheritance, etc. Also, I’m pretty sure a person isn’t legally obligated to incriminate their spouse. I don’t know for sure, but I wouldn’t be surprised if unmarried couples also were discriminated against by adoption agencies.
Yes, some of these issues can be circumvented with living wills, regular wills, power of attorney, etc. But only some of them, and marriage bestows them all in one fell swoop.
So yeah, legally recognized marriage is a huge deal.
Well, there are things like visitation rights in hospitals and (I think) having the authority to act as a health care proxy for a spouse. I think there are also issues involving parental rights, i.e., spouses having the full parental rights over a spouse’s child.
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There is also a strong economic argument in terms of the social good of gay marriage. There’s reams and reams (ha) of studies showing marriage is economically beneficial; married people are more economically productive, less reliant on government programs, less prone to fiscal catastrophe and bankruptcy, and of course this simplifies the law and therefore a lot of administrative costs.
Really, you can make a very strong conservative case for gay marriage; it is economically beneficial, increases legal equality, reduces government interference in the affairs of citizens, and increases emphasis on the family. Whatever spin people want to put on it, all opposition to gay marriage is essentially religious.
Not sure that’s a selling point these days. While I know many conservatives who truly do want to reduce all government meddling, the party line seems to be “meddle in the affairs of people who aren’t me, but keep the government out of my business.”
What are the potential consequences for jurisdictions or even individuals who refuse to issue a marriage license to same sex couples? Is it an issue that each state will have to handle individually? What happens if a state refuses to issues licenses?
I’ve noticed that for the last year or so, the conservative attitude on the dope has been a pretty constant “I don’t have any problems with gay marriage myself, I’m just concerned about the legal ramifications, that’s all, I swear.”