"Take it with a grain of salt" etymolgy?

What is the origin of the idiom, “Take it with a grain of salt?”

Also, can you recommend a website that lists idiom etymologies?

Hows this:

From this web site.

The first place to look for this kind of stuff is The Word Detective. If you look in the index of back issues, you will find his column on grain of salt among many other columns on word and phrase origins.