Okay, here’s the situation: I’m 25, dropped out of high school when I was 15, got my GED and started college when I was 19. I’ll be getting my BA this spring. It’s taken six years because I went part-time for the first two years and I’ve switched majors a few times. What I want to do, ultimately, is to teach college. I don’t have really high aspirations with this - I think I’d be pretty happy teaching community college (based on my experiences as a student at one, and the professors I knew there), but I really want to get a Ph.D., eventually.
I’ve been working full time supporting myself the entire time I’ve been in school. My family is not supportive at all. They think that I’m wasting my time in college and even trying to talk to them about my future is like pulling teeth. Since no one else in my family has gone to college, their idea of useful advice is “Well, why don’t you just drop out and try to become a manager at a big box store?” Riiight. Anyway, I’m doing pretty well in school and my academic advisor is pushing me pretty hard to just go straight to grad school - she’s suggesting that I apply to places like Columbia and NYU and other big name schools. But I’m really thinking that it might be best for me to take a year off first. I’m pretty burned out right now, and I miss being able to have some sort of a life that isn’t just work-school-sleep, work-school-sleep. I was laid off at the beginning of the year, and my finances are still pretty rocky - I’m not sure I can even afford to take the GRE right now. I’d like to take a year off, work, save some money and then try grad school. On the other hand, all the professors and advisors I’ve talked to at my school say that if I wait it’ll be really hard to go back, and I shouldn’t “waste time just working a bad job” in between.
So what are your experiences? Is it hard to take a year off and then go to grad school? Did you do it? Was it worth it? Or is it best to just suck it up and plow straight through? Thank you all in advance for any advice or wisdom you’ve got to share.