“A person who practices teabagging, i.e., the sexual act of inserting the scrotum into someone’s mouth.”
If you read that, and thought, “That’s clearly not something straight people do,” you should probably have a talk with your girlfriend. She may be misleading you.
Sorry, I’m going to have to do precisely what you just told me not to do, and ask you for a cite. Partially because what you’re saying is contrary to my experience both as a gamer and as a gay man, and partially because I’m hoping your next cite fails as badly as your last one did.
I remember the term describing the sex act act from '90s before Halo existed.
Wiki says, “Its gain in prominence has been attributed to its depiction in the film Pecker, which was released in 1998.” Link: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Teabagging.
A long time ago, I read a complaint letter from an elderly woman who strongly objected to a magazine photograph of a young woman in a frilly dress and pearls. Think debutante.
What was wrong with the photograph? It was lewd and obscene. Why? Pearls. PEARLS!!
The woman had to inform me that pearls are frequently used in pornographic pictures to frame or highlight areas that should be covered by underwear. The picture of the young lady wearing pearls was, in her mind, an allusion to this teenager having sex, and it was highly offensive for a magazine to use that picture to titillate all those perverts out there.
To adapt a phrase from Freud, sometimes a string of pearls is just a string of pearls, and sometimes oral contact with a scrotum is just oral contact with a scrotum. And Doyle, my friend, you needn’t read any more into it than that.
The term definitely predates Halo, but I never knew there was a sexual component to it. To me it was just nasty shit boys do to each other like farting in you hand and putting it in someone’s face.
I should add that there were never any mouths involved, that would be undeniably sexual.
No big deal. If nothing else, I’ve now got both Wikipedia and Urban Dictionary demonstrating that tea-bagging is for straight people. If someone can dig up a Snopes article, we’ll have the Internet Cite Trifecta.
Sez who?? Do you have a cite to back up this incredible assertion?? Basically, it sounds like the same sort of assertion that some folks make wrt oral or anal sex being only associated or predominantly associated with gays. What it comes down to is folks making these sorts of assertions are missing out on the fun that most of their heterosexual neighbors have been having all along.
Never in life! She might really believe this, just as the OP apparently believes that straight guys never want to put their balls on their wives or girlfriends faces while thinking pure thoughts of making a good cuppa.
There are vulgar terms than can be performed by heterosexuals, but are generally associated with gay activity: pole smoker, carpet muncher, etc. If I wrongly put teabagger in that category, my bad.
Meh. I’m bi and generally present as straight, so have not had the same experiences that many gay men have. But I’ve never encountered it as a gay-focused pejorative.
That said, it is very much a product of hypermasculine homophobic dudebro horseshit.