With regard to the Tax man getting a hunk of your “death benefit”
This is incorrect. Period. The tax man stays away from the death benefit of a life insurance policy. He may come a-knocking if you take cash out of your Whole Life or Universal Life policy, but this is a discussion for you to have with a life insurance AGENT. Advise toward Estate Planning to protect the proceeds of a life insurance policy is misguided. Life Insurance is used in Estate Planning as a tool to pay inheritance taxes (which I think GWB repealed a while back). The idea is you pay the tax bill with the NON TAXED (ahem) life insurance proceeds as opposed to liquidating part of the estate and giving it to the gubmint. All that said, you want to check the laws of your state to see if the proceeds of your life insurance policy will be subject to state or local income taxes. The Feds leave it alone, however.
Also incorrect is the statement, “Yes. Pretty much every company will write you a policy…you can get insured.” It is inappropriate to make such a statement despite the qualifier, “Depending on the company and the plan you want, the rate might be higher…” which is true. Point being, if an underwriter concludes that you are a bad(hard word, but you get my point) enough risk, the policy can be declined irrespective of the type and amount.
Getting a whole life policy now, given that you are overweight and still in the process of changing that condition, is also inappropriate. Your weight will almost certainly be reflected in the cost of the policy–why then buy the most expensive policy available until you have attained your target weight? (let me know if that needs clarification).
Now. My input. The need that you have stated (to cover expenses for raising your daughter) suggests that, yes, a term policy is in order. Decide how long this need is going to last (assuming you get hit by a bus the minute after you purchase the coverage) and buy a policy for that amount of time or a year or 4 longer.
A million bucks sounds excessive. From what I have seen, it is only mildly so. And quite affordable in a term policy (Have you considered rounding out the old man’s coverage to a million as well? just in case he gets eaten by a bear or something?). Consider getting a 1 or 5 year term policy for now (while you shed the weight) and once you qualify for standard or preferred rates you can go for the longer term–could save you some dough, talk to your LICENSED AGENT about options.
I could name 3 companies off the top of my head that, according to the rating agencies, will be willing, available and able to pay the death claim whenever the time comes. Doing so, I think, would be inappropriate in this forum.
But yes, these are valid concerns. Matchka Mutual can sell you the policy, you can pay it for 10 years, Matchka Mutual leaves the business and guess what? Your policy evaporates…and now you have breast cancer or something and are uninsurable. Something about creeks and paddles comes to mind.
Some Auto Insurance companies will offer a discount on the car insurance if you also have a life (or homeowner’s) policy with that company. Dunno about Nationwide.