A side story: a friend and I were wagering on who would win the CFL’s Grey Cup one year. We made the wager before the season started, and without getting too detailed, let’s just say that he had A, B, C, and D teams; I had W, X, Y, and Z teams.
Now, he doesn’t play for money, so some other terms had to be agreed to. One night’s tab at the pub? Well, okay, but we’ve got to do better than that. Streaking down Yonge Street in Toronto? No, that’s a little too much, and “it’s so 1970s.”
Finally, we agreed on terms. If I lost, I’d either get a tattoo or get my ears pierced. If he lost, he’d have to lose his head of hair, and his beard (he looked like a lion, with his mane and beard), and end up looking like Kojak. We shook hands, and that was that.
We followed our teams through the CFL season. The Grey Cup that year came down to one of his teams against one of my teams. My team lost.
Time to make good on my obligation. I opted for ear piercing instead of a tattoo, figuring that I could take the studs out after the job was done, and that would be that. Not at all like a tattoo. But it wasn’t. The piercer told me about infections and antiseptics that would be needed, and that the keepers needed to be in for a number of weeks, and other—well, frankly, horror stories. So I followed the rules, and now my ears are pierced for life.
Interestingly, I grew to like pierced ears. I was never very radical, mostly just wearing inoffensive and small studs, but I do remember that my ex-wife gave me a nice pair of diamond studs one Christmas. And they have come in handy at times; such as when I played a pirate in a community theatre production, and I got a pair of brass hoops. Yarrr! But for the most part, and especially now that the holes are there with no danger of closing, I don’t wear them very much. Sometimes, though, just for fun.
Definitely not like a tattoo. Nobody notices the small holes in my earlobes, and if they do, they put it down to just a wrinkle. I can speak with clients and go to court, and nobody notices or cares.
OP, might pierced ears be something a little less permanent and prominent than a tattoo? Yes, a tattoo is forever, but pierced ears are easily skipped over unless you want to focus attention on them. Again, consider who you want to see your body art.