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So, you want to meet women, not specifically “pick them up”? This is slightly different. First, you’ve gotta screw-up your courage to the sticking point and open your mouth. I realize that for the terminally shy (I was, once, and I know!), it’s hard to say that first “hello”.
Comment on on something non-personal, that you both obviously have in common. The weather is always a stand-by, but is kinda over-done. Maybe the wait for the buss? Or if you’re at work, the recent changes in the office decor? You get the idea. If she responds at all, introduce yourself. Do not give your life history, just your name. If she’s interested, or at least not totally turned off, she’ll give you her name. Ask her opinion on the subject you raised, and try to keep the conversation focused around her. If she wants to know more about you, she’ll ask.
Don’t push, don’t pry, and keep it light. Stay away from potential hot-button topics at first: If she wishes to discuss Femminism in the Post-Modern Era, she’ll let you know.
Be prepared to back off. If you start getting mono-syllabic answers, gracefully excuse yourself. Forcing an unwanted conversation is a sure-fire way to be labeled a ‘creep’, while a graceful exit should leave you a chance to try again later. After all, maybe she was thinking about something else, or had a bad morning.
Don’t over-stay your welcome. Rambling on and on will turn most women completely off.
Don’t dwell on yourself. Most people find that boring, even if you’re a super-hero. It she wants to know about you, she’ll ask. Until she does, keep the conversation on her (without getting creepy).
Boldness sometimes pays off unexpectedly. If she smells nice, ask her the name of her purfume or cologne. Tell her that like the way it smells on her. If she’s dressed in a manner that you particularly like, tell her so (Don’t get graphic!). Women like to be complimented, as long as you don’t lay it on with excessive thickness. Remember: There’s a fine line between Blarney and Baloney.
If it feels silly, keep trying: Fake it until you make it.
Before all else, be yourself, and let the girl be herself.