Or the car does it for you. If you put a long trip into the Tesla’s navigation, it will tell you which superchargers to stop at.
As for your pros and cons, do not put “Enjoyable to drive” at the bottom of the list. Tesla’s are muscle cars. They’re reasonably well composed around corners, but heavy, even if it’s all low down. They are brutally fast in a straight line. This is fun. I barely ride my motorcycle since getting a Model 3, because the car is just so fun to drive. Also, getting deep into the go pedal doesn’t hurt your wallet (ooh, another $0.15 to charge tonight, because I’m a lead foot!).
I was disappointed about the lack of Car Play/Android Auto, but it hasn’t bothered me. With the premium connectivity ($100/year, I think, I’m grandfathered in for life time) you get live traffic, and lots of streaming. It comes with Slacker, but also supports Spotify, plus just bluetooth streaming from your phone (no premium needed). The Tesla navigation is essential Google Maps. Lack of Car Play is definitely a con, but I don’t think a big one.
The interior is fine, but it could be better for the price. People whine about a heated steering wheel. I hate it on my in-laws car. Uggh, now I’m driving around with sweaty hands because I don’t know how to turn it off. For me, the big feature I miss is ventilated seats. I want a car that blows cool air up my ass.
The lack of physical controls is really over hyped. “It doesn’t have a volume knob!” Yes it does, it’s right at your left thumb on the steering wheel. You can also tap the volume roller side to side to forward and reverse tracks. Physical controls for the climate stuff would be nice, but once you get used to it, not a big deal. Just a tap to adjust the temperature, and let the auto system take care of it. Or tap once to open the menu and adjust it manually. The fog lights are too many taps to get to (two taps).
The AWD costs money, but adds even more fun. A whole new motor to zoom.
The cost to install the charger is going to vary by the situation. Expect $500-1500, but you could get lucky and it’s much cheaper. Where is your breaker box in relation to where you’ll park the car? Is there space in it to add a 220 volt breaker? Is there capacity to add a 30 or 50 amp outlet? Depending on your use, you may be able to get away with 110 charging.
Finally reliability. It’s not good, but my previous car was a 2002 Volkswagen, and I don’t think it’s a whole lot worse than that. At least I’ve never had to bring the car back to Tesla to fix the same problem over and over again. I’ve had lots of things done under warranty, including a whole new traction battery. On site service is also good. No need to take it to the service center for lots of repairs. New Model 3s seem to be better put together than mine, one of the first few thousand dual motor models. The early Model Ys were embarrassing. I really hope they’ve got those issues sorted out.
Low maintenance is no joke. In 25,000 miles the only thing even sort of maintenance I’ve spent money on is winter tires, and swapping the summer and winter tires.
Also, pre-heating and pre-cooling the interior is fantastic.
200 miles in a winter day shouldn’t be a big deal. If you forget to charge, go to your in-laws first, and charge there.