That "Tidal Lock" Theory

Yep, that is the common misunderstanding that I referenced before that has been with us for well over 100 years.

Most likely it is caused by elementary textbooks copying other elementary text books without validating the assumptions.

Here is another page that will go into it in more depth in addition to the ones above.

https://www.lockhaven.edu/~dsimanek/scenario/tides.htm

But it is the tractive force, or the forces tangential to the surface that cause this effect.

Here is another video that tries to explain the way this works without resorting to those common but flawed analogies.

And yes even NOAA uses this incorrect simplification,

The reserves the more important force to another page.

It has been a problem for a long time.