I live in flyover country.
I have little choice but to listen to them. They are my family, my neighbors, my clients, some of my employees and most of my acquaintances.
They are full of hate and lies. Not all of them, not all the time. But about anything political, all they can do is regurgitate right wing walking points.
Oh, and there is a very popular Sushi bar around here (kindof, struggling with the pandemic), which is run by one of the most right wing individuals I have ever met.
Maybe you need to get out of your bubble as well. “Get in a pickup truck?” Isn’t that you stereotyping?
We listen. We have been listening. The problem is, is that a conversation needs to go both ways, and they are more than willing to give an earful, but they are not willing to listen.
Every compromise on our part is met with more demands on theirs.
We are supposed to respect them? Respect is earned, not demanded.
What the solution is, I really don’t know. But this whole listen and respect thing, giving them everything that they want? It’s been tried, it didn’t work. It just enabled them further. Giving in to the tantrums of a toddler never works, but what do you do when they have a gun pointed at your head?
As long as they have that power, they will never learn, they will never listen, they will just threaten the very core of our civilization and society in exchange for their short sighted, selfish desires.