Tax breaks? What tax breaks? You’ve heard of the “marriage penalty” tax, I presume? My husband and I would pay less in income taxes if we were not married. Because of my income, he cannot deduct an IRA contribution, or the money he spends on union dues and continuing education in his career as a teacher, or a host of other things which he COULD do if he were single. Further, we end up in a higher tax bracket together than we would be singly.
Married folks might] have a tax break if one of them doesn’t work; been awhile since I crunched those numbers, so I’m not sure anymore. But it doesn’t happen when they are both employed.
Homosexuality and marriage is irrelevant to the question of the deductibility of children. The supporting parent can claim the child as a dependent whether that parent is gay or straight, single or married.
-Melin

