She was asked about Trump’s wall, right? Do you think the $1.6B previously approved in the senate, that you describe as “fence” or whatever, would that colloquially count as “Trump’s wall?” Would Trump describe it as such? Of course not, that’s why he’s rejected that offer altogether. So Trump gets a $0 dollar offer for his wall, which has nothing to do with the $1.6B DHS requested for some new barrier.
Yes, if they’re negotiating in good faith over a DHS request. That is no longer the case, the debate is now over Trump’s wall, the one he promised during his campaign.
I’ll say it again – if Trump were to remove himself from the process, DHS would get their money from a bipartisan vote, the government would restart, and life would go on. But that ship has sailed, this is now about fulfilling Trump’s campaign promise, despite your colorful characterization of his position as something else entirely.