You are, but then we are free to speak freely ourselves, which can include arguing that you are wrong. I definitely see the argument that caring about other people’s feelings is part of morality–a lot of what we consider immoral is such because it hurts others emotionally.
That said, as far as I’m concerned, your main error is in who you assign blame. If I were to dodge the draft, I am not the one who forced someone else to take my place. The government did that.
That type of logic breaks down because it would apply to any situation where one protects themselves. If I keep myself from being raped, that could easily mean that the rapist has more time to find another victim. But that’s not my fault. That’s the rapist’s. If I run away from a shooter, being unable to stop them, and they go on to shoot someone else, that’s on them. I didn’t kill the victim. Same here: that the government took someone else when they shouldn’t have taken away their freedom is the government’s fault.
And, yes, I do believe that drafts are wrong. The military in a free country should always be volunteer based–albeit with possible financial incentives. A drafted individual potentially has their right to life taken away. Liberty is definitely taken away. And, given what PTSD can do to a person, often have pursuit of happiness heavily curtailed. It contradict the founding documents.
I can see throwing in some required training for protection, counting it as part of schooling, of learning the skills you need for life as a citizen. But not being drafted into wars.
As for how this applies to rich people: I find myself siding with the others that there is something different about being so rich you could basically scam the system, while not using that power to try and stop the draft entirely. I also have some problems with the misleading ways people are brought into the military, making it not quite as voluntary as it should be. No one should think it will “make them a man.” Plenty of grown men don’t join the military. I think that’s part of toxic masculinity to think you have to be this warrior type to be a “real man,” as this promotes violence as a solution to problems.
I recognize the need for a military, but I firmly believe it must always be a free choice to join or not join. One should have opportunity at some point to leave if it’s not what they thought they were signing up for–though I understand letting them leave at any point would be bad.
So for those who used their class status as a way to avoid military service, but did nothing to try and help anyone else avoid the service, I see those people as immoral. That is where Trump lies, for instance.
But draft dodging itself? No. Sometimes it was just self-defense. And someone defending themselves isn’t responsible for other victims–the perpetrator is.
And, yes, I know I will likely get pushback for making the government the bad guys who one needs to act in self-defense of. But I am, like you, speaking freely. I don’t believe a democratic government has the right to force people to put their lives at risk because it wants to fight a war.