IANA lawyer, but my wife is.
The courts are a system. Just like the system you use at work for whatever you do, whether that’s filing papers, assembling gizmos or helping customers.
A courtroom is a 3-ring circus, where ring 1 has the Facts, ring 2 has the Law, and ring 3 has the personalities of the judge, jury members (if applicable), lawyer(s), parties, & witnesses.
You sound like you believe you have the Facts on your side. Great.
What about the other 2 rings? Generally you need to prevail in 2 of 3 to win. What expertise in those areas do you bring to the fight? Opposing council is an expert, though perhaps a crappy one, in those areas.
Your assertion that the judge ends up acting as the attorney for a non-represented party is nuts. (S)He will help with the trivial procedural issues of when to call witnesses & such, and may be willing to accept documents in “improper” formats, but don’t expect him/her to raise objections on your behalf, be an effective cross-examiner, etc.
If I went to your work location and tried to do your job for a day I might be able to stumble through parts of it. If it happens to be something I’d done before, even as an amateur, I might be able to almost scrape by. But in no way would I be doing pro quality work at a pro quality pace. Just watch Dirty Jobs for some examples of a fairly smart & handy guy looking like an utter n00b and mostly failing at some pretty unskilled jobs. Imigine how well he’d do at things that take real training to accomplish.
Courtrooms move at real-time speed, and when the Judge or opposing council is talking, you need to be able to hear, understand where they’re going, understand how it relates to all 3 rings, and decide how to respond. In real time.
The courts are a system. They are not here to produce Justice. They are here to produce decisions. Along the way, justice is often done. And sometimes not. Skill in operating the system counts for a lot in the results you get. And in an adversarial system like ours, you are competing with the other guy. Both of you are trying to drive the system to do your bidding. And only one of you will succeed. The judge is there to referee, but the reffing is a lot more like Hockey, where 1 in 100 violations are penalized, than football, where 9 of 10 are.
All that said, maybe you’ll luck out. How much is at stake? Whenever I hire a pro to do something, including hiring a lawyer, I’m always unhappy with the less-than-total involvement they have in my case. It’s easy to convince yourself that your pro is shoddy, distracted, or just not as smart as you or I are.
But they have something you or I don’t: skill & proficiency at the task at hand. We won’t see it in action until it’s time to do the task.
Something to consider … Litigators have a slang term for opponents who represent themselves. They call them “Lunch”.
My bottom line: It ain’t like TV. Stick with a pro. If you really have doubts about your current guy/gal, get a second opinion.