Folks, can we at least call it a hijab, not a hajib? I don’t know what hajib means in Arabic, but it’s not what’s being talked about here. A minor point, but at least LEARN what it is you’re arguing about.
My son went to a school that banned all headgear (for the typical gang-related causes). Except that it also had the good sense not to interfere in students’ personal expression of their practice of religion (a good idea, being in a heavily Jewish neighborhood, as well as an area with a lot of immigrants from all over the world), so kids were ALWAYS allowed to dress according to their religious beliefs. A lot of the girls wore the hijab with a long-sleeved shirt and long pants; a few even went further and wore full-length robes. And they were allowed to wear special modest clothing for P.E. classes.
And you know what? The kids had no problem with it, nobody thought anybody with a yarmulke or hijab was in a gang, nobody got in an uproar because they were being told by the state to do something that is (IMHO) none of the state’s damn business, and everyone got ALL the religious holidays off.
If we’re going to tell Moslem girls not to wear the hijab and orthodox Jewish boys not to wear the yarmulke, are we going to mandate that the Moslem and Jewish kids also have to eat pork if that’s the only item on the school lunch menu? How far do we go in saying, hey, we’re not allowing ANY personal expression of religious beliefs in a school setting?
If what a kid is doing to express religious beliefs is passive, as in clothing and dietary choices, it’s NONE OF MY DAMN BUSINESS and NONE OF THE STATE’S BUSINESS. Now, if the kid starts preaching about their religion and how all Christian infidels should convert or die under the sword, THEN it becomes the state’s business.
I had a coworker a few years ago who’d married a Moslem, and started wearing the hijab to work. A few weeks later I saw her one day without it and asked her why. She said that people kept giving her strange looks and acting like it bothered them. I told her that it was her choice to dress any way she wanted as long as it was professional, and if they had a problem with her hijab it was THEIR problem, not hers. I was pleased to see that she resumed wearing it until she left the firm. It’s not my choice, but if it’s her choice, it should BE her choice and nobody else’s damn business!