Simon you win. You have waltzed me down your stupid path of logical perfection to prove that I would be callous prick if I believed that your family should not be upset by your cousin’s death. You are 100% correct that, taken literally, my statement implies that. You were right. There, I admit it.
Now, let me rephrase the statement:
“…And frankly I write off anyone who gets too upset about them, except those who knew and loved them personally, as naive souls…”
Okay?
The heart of the matter is this, soldiers die doing their jobs. It is part of their jobs. This is not a game of Risk, but it is how wars are waged and international statesmanship is enforced.
Now, as for this statement: “…Some people are genuinely concerned that the American deaths are not justified by the, (still), potential benefits…”
I agree that that sentiment is out there. But in my opinion, those people are the naive ones. (Or the ones who hate Bush and/or this war and use the distaste of American deaths as a disguise for their true opinions.) They have no clue that the Allied deaths of this conflict have been miniscule compared to prior wars we have fought. The price we are paying to fight this war in terms of blood is tiny (granted, not to their loved ones). If you want a cite, search for a Sunday NY Times article a few months ago that showed a month-by-month American casualty tally of all the wars we have fought in since WWI. Some months the bars on the graph, for WWII, especially, shoot up the page, maybe 8 or more inches – and WWII went on for 4 years, remember. IIRC, the casualities on this war were so tiny by comparison, the bars were often wider than they were tall.
As for the “(still) potential benefits,” some of them may be huge and some of them may be nonexistant; and yes, some of them may actually backfire in our faces with more anti-Americanism – the verdict probably won’t be in for years, but such is the case with most wars. (Did they foresee WWII after WWI?) Wars, like soldiering, are crapshoots too.
But we DO know that Saddam is toppled and the thousands of Iraqis who suffered under him are better off today than they were a year ago. That much is undeniable.