Nonsense, I am using the word “civilization” in a perfectly conventional sense and my argument does not depend on any equivocation on the term. Anyway, even if we use the utterly non-standard definition that you suggest, and call the whole of human history a civilization, my conclusion still follows: we have only very weak reasons to believe that a civilization’s technological progress typically continues indefinitely because we only know know of one example, it has not developed the technology to travel or communicate effectively over galactic distances, and there are good reasons to believe its period of rapid technological advancement will soon be ended by ecological collapse or nuclear holocaust.
On a more conventional definition of “civilization,” we know of lots of examples (precisely how many will depend on niceties of definition, but that is not the issue here) and none of them have lasted. In every case except the one still ongoing, we see a period of advancement (technological and otherwise) followed by decline, collapse, and a loss and forgetting of most of the accumulated knowledge and technology. We happen to be in the midst of a period of rapid advancement right now, but all the evidence shows that this is not typical, and that such periods end. A reasonable induction is that technological progress does not continue indefinitely. A more cautious conclusion (reasonable given all the unknowns) is that we simply have no idea of how probable it is that an intelligent species, given enough time, would develop galactic level technology, but it may well be extremely improbable.
But Fermi, and everyone else in this discussion, seems to assume that it is virtually inevitable that if an intelligent species is around long enough it is sure to develop its technology to the requisite level. That is simply an induction based upon extrapolation from the last few centuries of ‘Western’ civilization. A slightly wider view of what we know about the history of the human species - i.e., actually taking account of all the available evidence instead of just that portion that you happen to know best and that makes you feel good - soon shows that that induction is entirely unwarranted. Civilizations decline and collapse. Periods of technological advancement come to an end, and the knowledge is lost (until some later civilization rediscovers it). Thus, there is no reason to believe that intelligent aliens who have been around longer than we have will have, or even are likely to have, a significantly more advanced technology than we do now. I am not saying that it not possible that they would, but we have no good reason to think it likely.