In a long-ago posting lost in the mists of time*, I posted a rant about the movie “Contact” (Jodie Foster) and railed about having been led on by advertisements & interviews portraying it as a “female hero” movie, only to find myself watching a woman looking like a deer caught in the headlights as everything (good or bad, as the plot twists) happens to her under the control of other people.
Today I am 2/3 through a paperback mystery someone discarded at work and the emotional structure is identical. Woman is haunted and horrified by Bad Things that have happened to her in her past. Overprotective male person who is supposed to be on her side does other (minor) Bad Things in the process of protecting her, frustrating her with the sense of powelessness and of not being understood & heard. Other characters appear bent on destroying her by any means possible. The Overprotective Guy says some things and the main character accidentally comes across some items she presumably isn’t intended to see and is haunted and horrified by the possibility that he isn’t on her side at all and is helping to destroy her. After many chapters of agonizing and worrying and being haunted and horrified, she finally decides to take action, and gets nowhere and needs rescuing from some mess she got herself into in the process of trying to take action, and the rescuer is, of course, the Overprotective Guy, who subsequently restricts her freedom yet more, treating her attempt to take action as a clear sign of the necessity of her childlike status. And so on.
What’s WITH this genre? I can see the attraction to readers of ambivalence about a powerful ally with overprotective overtones (“Is this person good for me or is this person smothering me and stealing away my freedom?”), but how can anyone sit through so much passivity and nail-biting on the part of the main character with whom one is encouraged to identify? Am I the only one who reads or watches these and ends up feeling like slapping the main character across the face and screaming, “You are NOT in a good place! Bad things are happening! Quit being ambivalent and get the fuck out of this situation by any means necessary!” --??
*(perhaps pruned? search engine don’t find…)