I’m so glad that the “abstinence only” approach to sex education is having such a startling success rate among America’s youth. As reported by the Associated Press:
I found the following paragraph rather intriguing, suggesting as it does that both the pledgers themselves and the authors of the study apparently believe that one is still a virgin after engaging in anal sex:
Of course, the pro-abstinence crowd is saying that this dcoesn’t mean anything, and have
But this, of course, ignores the fact that there still seem to be a large number of kids out there who pledge abstinence and yet subject one another to unsafe sexual practices. Surely this must call into question a policy that advocates pushing abstinence at the expense of sex education that accepts that some adolescents will engage in sexual activity, and teaches about how to avoid STDs and pregnancy. Especially because:
If even 88% of the pledgers are still having sex, surely we need some, you know, proper sex education.
I was gonna put this is GD, but to me it seems so fucking cut-and-dried that it’s barely worth debate. These abstinence-only “educators” are one fucking stupid bunch of people.
So after all the old people die can we have some actual sex education? Is it religious or just plain ignorance here (the state of mind of the people that push these programs)? I don’t get it.
Who would have thought that being a sexagenarian was in and of itself a sexual activity! Does this mean that everything my parents do is considered a sexual activity?
“Kids who pledge abstinence are taught that any word that has ‘sex’ in it is considered a sexual activity,” Unruh said. “Therefore oral sex is sex, and they are staying away.”
Wow. The level of self-induced delusion in this statement is stunning. Can we rename it the “No true abstinence-pledger” fallacy?
It seems pretyy obvious that even if what she was saying was true, the problem is these programs don’t mention oral sex or anal sex. Much too disturbing…likely to frighten the horses…I mean, upset the parents.
I have to ask, will they have the balls (can I say balls in front of abstinence only people?) to claim 88% vs. 99% as some sort of victory…WHEN IT ALSO SEEM TO BE THE CASE THAT THOSE 88% ARE ARE MORE LIKELY TO RISK STD AND UNWANTED PREGNACY!!!
Sheesh.
I was just reading that story…I love the logic of “…oral sex is sex and they are staying away.”
Hmm, lessee if I’ve got that right…a kid who takes the pledge and has oral sex obviously didn’t REALLY take the pledge so they don’t count as having broken the pledge. Guess you can’t argue with that crushing logic, let’s just all admit that it’s 100% perfect and stop teaching kids about hoohoos and tatas and peepees and all that other icky stuff.
Gorsnak: *Who would have thought that being a sexagenarian was in and of itself a sexual activity! *
And all those poor kids learning high school Latin now have to count “one, two, three, four, five, seven,…” in order to avoid having sexual activity in class. :rolleyes:
Besides being so effective at reducing sexual activity in teens, the abstinence-only movement also seems to be doing a similarly, er, bang-up job at reducing teen pregnancy:
However, I think the survey’s comparison isn’t the appropriate one: the study “found that teens pledging virginity until marriage are more likely to have oral and anal sex than other teens who have not had intercourse.”
In the case of anal intercourse in particular, that’s a big ‘duh.’ If you’re a heterosexual teen who thinks genital sex is perfectly OK morally, which are you overwhelmingly more likely to have first, genital sex or anal sex? So you just aren’t going to have many heterosexual teens not taking some pledge like this, who have had anal sex but not genital sex. The reason kids who take the pledge have anal sex is that they see it as a loophole; kids who haven’t taken the pledge don’t need the loophole. (There must be a “butthole = loophole” joke here somewhere.)
The proper comparison is a straight-up comparison between the sexual habits of those who’ve taken the pledge v. those who haven’t, regardless of whether they’re still ‘virgins’ in the sense of never having had genital sex. If there had been no pledge, some of the kids who’ve signed it would have had genital sex by now, and some wouldn’t have; the latter group are the ones you’d compare to kids who haven’t taken the pledge but are still virgins - but there’s no way to determine which ones are in that group. So you have to compare all pledges to all non-pledges, controlled for age, sex, and any other significant variables.
I’d want to control for church affiliation and attendance. After all, if a teen is a regular attendee of a church that unequivocally preaches that sex outside of marriage is immoral, then s/he is more likely to abstain to begin with, than a teen with no church affiliation. But the first teen is also much more likely to sign a pledge than the second one, too.
So 11% more pledgers abstained from vaginal sex? Or 11% more pledgers reported abstaining from vaginal sex?
I do question those numbers, though. Among non-pledgers, 99% are having sex? That seems a little high. I would think it’s more like 50-60%. Hell, even among consenting married adults, I doubt that 99% are getting the good lovin’ on a regular basis.
Actually, if you go to the study’s own site and agree to their conditions, you can access access to the data and can control for a whole bunch of variables. I haven’t spent much time with it, because there’s a whole shitload of categories and it looks like it might take a while to extract intelligible figures.
I don’t think they’re saying 99% of non-pledging teens are regularly having sex, just that 99% of them will have sex at some point before they get married. All you have to do is sample people getting married and see if they had sex or not beforehand as well as whether they took the pledge.
I wonder how many of those 12% of pledgers who abstained from sex before marriage ended up getting married way younger than they would have otherwise? Nothing like rushing into marriage to start your life off right…
I have read, in an anti abstinence-only article, that Texas moved to number one on the teenage pregnancy list since they went to sex ed classes that teach no contraceptive method other than abstinence. If that’s true, it’s pretty impressive results.
If neglect is a form of abuse, then I am willing to say that neglecting to inform teenagers (and even pre-teens) who can have sex and get pregnant and get stds and get messed up emotionally and psychologically about sex in the real world is child abuse. It’s way past time to quit farting around with abstinence and religious bullshit and teach kids what they really need to know.