Your apology is accepted in the spirit of the Pit, so I guess screw you for apologizing?
BTW, the reason I brought it up again was that I was just on an 8 person zoom discussing a job candidate who uses they/them. It seemed I heard a variant of “he, I mean they” every 10-15 seconds over the course of the 30 minute meeting, which IMHO distracting from the goal of the meeting which was to determine whether they were qualified for the position. Presumably we’ll get better at it.