::: stepping up to the mic tentively, to throw in another definition and make an ass of herself :::
Hello everyone!
“Hello faithfool”!
I’m here to proclaim that I am… a deist.
::: collective gasp :::
Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, I’ve amassed some questions from the thread thus far. I hope no one minds if I put them out on the table for whoever to answer.
[ol]
[li]I LOVE Aerosmith and have started a discussion or four about them. In those, there has invariably people who’ve believed that my guys are past their prime, all their new stuff sounds exactly the same and since they’re virtual dinosaurs, they need to give up playing like young hotties strutting about the stage and trying to pull the lime light from Justin Timberlake. Although I vehemently disagree, I will listen to this line of reasoning and give it serious consideration versus the usual absolute adoration I send their way. However, if another arrives blaring “They just suck!” or “I hate them!” or “You’re so stupid/brainwashed/unsophisticated!” then I typically disregard their opinion and instead wonder why they didn’t start a conversation of their own with the title being “Aerosmith should eat shit and die! The bastards!”[/li]
[li]If someone deserves derision, like ol’ Phred, then I see absolutely no reason to not meet his vitriol with some of one’s own. But if a person is doing their best to not preach, condemn or save you because of what they believe, then I see it as a simple sign of polite society to do the same in return. Extrapolate that out to Theist 1: “I feel that God works in my life.” Atheist 1: “I understand, but from my experience, I’ve never felt the presence of a god.” Both together: “I suppose we’ll have to agree to disagree.” Unless one or the other is interested in hearing more about your organization and wishes to subscribe to your newsletter. That still seems to be pulling no punches or not compromising a position, but behaving as you’d like to be treated.[/li]
[li]When I became first de-fundamentalized (for lack of a better suited word), I had a tendency to think very narrowly about those that still held to that version of faith. Over the years though, I realize that my ire was really directed at those who professed NO derivation from what they thought. Nope, not gonna do. This way is the ONLY way. There is no other. Ever. Period. And since most folks I know don’t spout that kind of rhetoric, I no longer paint them all with that same broad brush. I’m sure that any who are more accepting of the ‘every path leads to God’ approach are grateful to not be characterized the same as the intolerant. I know I am. I also have the same regard towards anyone who is militant, unmoving and/ unforgiving about any subject. Like feminism (of which I used to be one of those too – I was accused of being a man-basher more than once, for which I’m extremely embarrassed because, although I wouldn’t have bought it at the time, it definitely bordered on being true) or the choice of a Mac over Apple or any other issue under the sun. I try my very best to leave past (and current) prejudices or ideas at home when dealing in the present. It does need to be a case by case basis, every single time. No matter how difficult or tiresome that is. How would you feel if I judged you not by your character, but by someone else’s?[/li]
[li]Unfortunately, there are more to actions than public pursuit, governmental changes of policies or whispered cries against apparent persecution. I’ve seen many in America say they are oppressed as Christians. On the other side of the coin, I know personally those that are marginalized, are of the same conviction. For example, I used to visit a nice spiritual message board. Many there were just normal posters, not out campaigning or demonstrating or even listening to anything but ‘secular’ radio. And yet, even though I presented myself as that same kind of moderate, I was (IMHO) constantly attacked. How? Because of absolutist statements like; *“Those liberals are all commies!”, “The world is going to hell in a hand basket if we let a Democrat in office.” or "TV is now the bastion of all that is evil in the world, because of them. If not, there’d be no violence or so much sex. Just like it was 50 years ago. :eek:) If I ventured into these topics, I was sometimes the only voice of dissent and those who deigned to talk to me about it, looked down, wouldn’t here a different opinion (which, were they just there to preach to the choir?) or respect my respect for them. I really tried, but then I figured it wasn’t up to me to change their minds about something so simple as the concept of mutual, civil regard. They were tuning me out and it was better for my stress levels to just quietly leave.[/li]
[li]Why is everyone so concerned with clearing up ‘delusions’ that they deem other people to have? Why is it important? My ex-bestfriend could look straight at obstacle and view it as something other than torquois (when it was NOT :D) and yet, I could pull a color swatch out for her, properly labeled under that heading, compare the two and the only result was her stubbornly walking away shaking her head. What did it matter if we differed? Now I comprehend that quibbling over that versus a the huge religion debate is not the same, but if it truly what atheists and others claim (complete hogwash to the point of being laughable), then why fight them on it? Unless, they are pursuing damaging honest LIVES, then let them be what they want to. The ones who react in harm, deserve what they get. The ones who do not, deserve peace rather than belittlement and mockery.[/li][/ol]
For what it’s worth, I came to the conclusions I have after long, painful, serious consideration. Maybe they have to. And if that’s not the case, if you ever hope to inspire them to abandon their ‘delusions’ and see more clearly, then adhering to the Golden Rule will undoubtedly wield the best, most-desired in rational and logical sense (from either stance), results.
::: starts to sit down, nervously wiping palms and hoping she did all right :::
“Thank you! For finally shutting up and getting off the stage. You long-winded goofy-lookin’ freak!!”
Sorry.
I don’t mean to, I’m just not very capable of making my point without going round and round in an idiotic ramble.
P.S. to Poly: Please don’t go. You’ve definitely made an impact on me, take that as you will. I’d hate to see you give up the good fight and leave so many to flounder when your impact is far and wide and always positive. You are a credit to your God. I wish everyone cared that much.
[On preview, four pages have been added since I got this finished. I will go read up on them, then I’m sure I’ll type out another salvo. Sorry again.]