For once in my life, I refuse to give up and go quietly away, just because I’m a pest who doesn’t speak where anyone can understand me. I’ll quit that Pig Latin soon. I swear.
Simplified and succint as I can…
1.) Presentation is important if you want anyone to hear you and consider a different position. Banging one’s head against the wall never accomplishes anything but gaining a migrain.
2.) Not everyone is deserving of derision. Only the ilk of types like Phelps. Others, especially those that are trying, deserve even better than they put forth. Because sometimes, they do get the whole Golden Rule thing and then follow by example.
3.) Generalization doesn’t ever do anyone any good, lest it be turned back in your direction, for just one reason. Another is because it’s never deserved. The biggest red neck may read Proust. A graduate from Harvard could be a raging homophobe. Lumping us all in together is very insulting to anyone who even tangentially doesn’t fit the mold. I wouldn’t want them dismissing my arguements entirely due to a fallacy in judgment. Which isn’t mine anyhow.
4.) Thoughts and opinions sometime speak louder than words. Isn’t that the attitude we’ve lambasted here before? That you’re close to just as reprehensible if you condone vile behavior despite not having the actions to back it up? I’ve never had an abortion, but I’d damn well back up the right-to-life position as legitimate and show it the common courteousy it deserves. Regardless of my own stance or the rhetoric of opponents.
5.) Why is disabusing someone of a notion, a “delusion” to cop from a previous quote, so important? If the fact that I like Aerosmith isn’t an issue to you, be polite. If I rally for nothing but All Aerosmith, All The Time on every radio station imaginable, than fight me tooth and nail on it (although I don’t understand what could conceivably be a problem with that) because it effects that which is near and dear. Otherwise, be humanistic in your approaches.
Again, all IMHO. But I’d be thrilled, nay over-joyed, if a Doper would like to step up to the plate and grant me some of their thoughts. Because see, you have no idea how many drafts I’ve gone through just to get this down to a reasonable (for faithfool, that is) size. Please, pass recognition where it’s due this way. Or skim and just pretend to give it quasi-serious consideration.
I’m stepping away from the keyboard now and tying my hands. I’m not even going to spell check in the hopes that I won’t… keep… writing.
Argh!