My cousin used to train Navy SEALs. I remember having a discussion with him once about ‘the soldier mindset.’
He said that ‘guys like him [my cousin] protect guys like me.’
I responded with, “Yeah. Guys like you do protect guys like me – from other guys like you !”
He laughed.
The ‘harm’ to which you refer is often far too baked into the system that we describe. The protections are what it means to institutionalize discrimination.
And the misery that befalls others, by design to a far too great extent, is definitely a negative sum game.
When we abandon(ed) any reasonable notion of The Common Good, we choose a path that requires that we, as individuals, secure safe drinking water, safe food, gated communities (to protect us from crime), behemoth SUVs (because the roads are so bad), backup generators (because the grid is dilapidated), private schools, better doctors, etc., etc., etc.
(Trying desperately to bring this back OT) The things that “cancel culture” shouts down are things that inure to our collective detriment in myriad and insidious ways. We’ve just been conditioned not to think of it in those terms.
“Rugged individualism”
“Social Darwinism”
“Anybody can get ahead in this country”
They’re jingoistic, but there are no end of things they ignore and miseries that they perpetuate and secure.
And – as I’ve mentioned before – how much simpler does it get than this (now a few years old, but who thinks it’s changed much since 2003 ?):
That isn’t a lynching, but ignoring it may – in aggregate – do as much harm as a lynching (I’m being dramatic for effect).
If you’re a minority in the United States, the next rung on that ‘ladder ?’ It’s coated in grease.