I loved these books as a child, and now I’m re-reading them as an adult with my daughter. There’s some weird stuff in those books! Maybe it just went over my head as a child, but I’m really noticing now some really weird values in that series.
- They are really seriously emotionally repressed. In “Little Town on the Prairie” their blind sister Mary is going to go off to a college in Iowa and they don’t expect to see her again for 7 years. Of course everyone loves her and is sad, but she has a special bond with her youngest sister, 4 year old Grace. As Mary leaves, little Grace starts crying. Do they confort her? Hug her? No.
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Modesty takes precedence over almost everything else. There is a scene in which Pa is missing, caught in a blizzard. He’s been gone for days and they don’t know if he’s alive or dead. Besides the emotional connection of a loving father, if he dies their whole family is destroyed, as he is the breadwinner and sole financial support. But then one night, as the girls are sleeping, Pa comes in. He’s alive! Mary and Laura and Carry rush out to hug him in joy, but how do the parents respond. They are shocked are horrified that the girls are letting their father see them in their nightdresses! They shame them and tell them to go get dressed if they want to greet their father.
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Incomprehensible (to me at least) social expectations. The family goes to a large Thanksgiving feast at their church and when they walk in, they see something very unexpected.
I know that all of these things are a function of the time and place this was set in, but “A grown-up person must never let feelings be shown by voice or manner.” Really?