Things that were done in your childhood that would never be allowed today

To be fair, it’s a bowl of sugar and marshmallows, with a vitamin pill crushed up in it, and sometimes a fiber capsule dumped over it as well. And most kids eat it with 8 ozs of milk. Sometimes high protein milk, low fat milk, so they get 13g protein.

Yes, a scrambled egg, and some yogurt with fresh fruit would certainly be better, and that’s what my son eats for breakfast, but he eats a bowl of something like Cookie Crisp (he has to measure the cereal and milk so he gets an actual serving as described on the box) with Fairlife* (high protein, low lactose) skim milk for his afterschool snack. It satisfies his sweet tooth, and keeps him from wanting to eat thing like cookies, and candy which we don’t keep in the house, except around holidays.

We have dessert only on Shabbat, and he doesn’t mind. We used to have it every day when he was little, but then it was usually just a single cookie, or a “fun size” candy bar.

He also is allowed to have sugar-free hot chocolate, or decaf coffee with Splenda and milk.

This has more to do with cavities than nutrition, though, albeit, nutrition certainly plays a role. He had problems with his baby teeth when he was young, and had some restorations. The dentist said he had soft enamel. I had this as well, and have a lot of restorations, albeit, fortunately not on my front teeth.

The boychick has been lucky, though, and not had this condition with his adult teeth (I had it with both sets, and had braces as well, so I got lots of cavities at 11 & 12). He is 14, and right now, has no fillings or restorations of any kind in his current teeth.

He has to brush immediately after eating anything. There is a picture of him getting a filling at age 2 & 1/2 in the bathroom. It really encourages him to brush.

I see cutting back on sugar, compared to my time, happening all over. Personally, I think it’s a good thing, and it may partly be dentist-driven, and people finally recognize that they really do have some control over how much dental caries they get.

Unfortunately, a lot of the cutting back on sugar is bogus, and comes from the mistaken notion that is makes children “wild.”

In 1974, a guy named Ben Feingold published what came to be known as “the Feingold diet” for AD[H]D recovery. He wanted refined sugar eliminated as much as possible from the diets of “hyperactive” children, as he believed it caused hyperactivity in children with AD[H]D. FTR, he never said it caused wild behavior in children without such a diagnosis, but a lot of parents jumped to that conclusion, mainly because children in situations (holidays, days off from school, birthday parties with high kid:adult ratio) go wild, and also tend to eat a lot of sugar on such occasions. It’s a classic “post
hoc” error.

But at any rate, sugar took a bad hit.

If anyone wants to hear about the brilliant experiment with they “hyper” boys, the kinesiometers, and the sweet snacks, I’ll post it, but I want to end this long post for now.

*Or a brand like it.

Just saw this The Victoria Hall Disaste

1,500 grade-school kids in a big theatre for the afternoon entertainment, mostly without parents

Speaking of school lunches, in the 60’s my elementary school didn’t allow any talking while we ate. If we got caught talking, the supervising teacher would blow a whistle and yell, “Out on the line!”) As punishment, we’d have to stand in a line watching the other kids eat, and then clean up the area when they left for recess.

The school was so poor…their idea of a cafeteria was ordering in hotdogs every Thursday. :frowning:

Why do you think that had something to do with the school being poor? My kid’s school allowed them to order food once or twice a week - but it had nothing to do with the school being poor. It was a parochial school, built in the days when students went home for lunch ( so no cafeteria was needed) so when times changed and students no longer went home for lunch, they ordered food in for a change from “brought from home” lunch"

1,500 grade-school kids in a big theatre for the afternoon entertainment, mostly without parents

There was a time when cinemas in the UK did Saturday morning shows for children, which became a byword for “high-spirited behaviour”.

Good point. :slight_smile: Although the buildings were very old and not up to code and the school seemed lacking in resources.

We weren’t allowed to go home for lunch.

My kids weren’t allowed to go home for lunch either. But when I went to the same school ( in the late 60s-early 70s), everyone had to leave for lunch except for the very few students who only had one parent ( because the other was dead) - so there was no need for a cafeteria. Which I guess is something else that changed.

This was the case at the public elementary school I attended ~1959-ish at Otis AFB on Cape Cod. If you were caught talking during lunch, you just had to eat the rest of your lunch standing at your place. No onerous punishment or anything. It was only mildly humiliating.

The next school I went to was a full-bore, ole-timey Catholic school like in the Bing Crosby movies. Multi-story red brick building with separate entrances for boys and girls. Church across the street, rectory on one side, and convent on the other. Everyone had warned me about the rigorous discipline and tough standards I would face. In fact there was NO discipline at all. Lunch time resembled something from Animal House with kids screaming, shouting, and throwing food across the cafeteria, while nuns impotently tried to control the melee.

I believe these experiences formed my nascent worldview regarding uninformed people’s warnings and predictions.

When I was in grade school we had “McDonald’s Day” once or twice a year. The students all paid a dollar or whatever it was, and they’d bring in a burger, fries, and soda for everybody at lunch time.

I recall that this was a big deal that we all eagerly looked forward to.

My younger brother fell out of the front seat of the car. No seat belts of course. Normally, I would have the window seat since I was 10ish and he would be in the middle when it was just us going but for some reason my mom let a four-year-old sit next to the door. She went made a U-turn and out he went. Fortunately, he wasn’t hurt badly.

My older sister is three grades ahead and they were still having the children walk home for lunch, with one room for anyone whose mother was working(!) but that changed by the time I went and we took lunches.

We were free range kids but my wife grew up in Taipei and it was pretty much all study less adventure. We have an ongoing disagreement on how much freedom should our kids have.

A few things. Riding a bike or scooter without a helmet nowadays is just illegal. Hanging out at the beach with friends, or even alone (< 10yrs old).

My personal fave was around 7 - 8yrs old, I’d ride my bike (sans helmet) to a local motel that had a small swimming pool for ‘guests’. At the grand price of 20c, I’d hang there all day, swimming and lounging by the pool, and more often getting sunburned. Most of the time there were NO guests there, and no bloody lifeguard to supervise me…so a little kid, alone in a deep pool, and no protections. That would be UNHEARD of now.
Shit, even being a resident in a complex in a pool, we can’t send the 11 and 8 yr olds down for a swim without adult supervision…despite being able to hear every laugh and scream from the balcony!!

I used to happily climb back and forth over back seat of our station wagon while my Dad was driving to get to and from the back. If it I was tired, I’d sleep in the back.

We used to carry slim pocket knives in school and when it was Cub Scout day and we’d wear our uniform and carry the bigger Boy Scout knife as part of the uniform. I’d clip it to my pant loop and walk around all day like that.

I lived during the era of mini and micro-mini skirts. Woot! All the girls and even the teachers would wear them and we’d lie on the ground as the teachers passed. All the teachers would say is the ground was dirty or to get up while happily strolling past us.

If all the seats in the car were full. Both kids and adults would sit on someone’s lap. No seatbelts of course!

Four or five crammed in the front, no problem!

I remember several 5-hour drives in a pickup truck from San Antonio to Dallas in the 60s with four adults (well, 20-somethings) crammed in the front seat-- no seatbelts.

What? Why?

Ummm…because I’m a guy and no one wore shorts under their skirts. Oh, and to be clear, we laid facing up, not down.

“He has to brush immediately after eating anything.”

Experts now say to not do this, the enamel is too soft. Use a alcohol free mouthwash or chew sugar free gum instead.

When I was in high school, my uncle had a 72 Chevelle. We could cram six people in the front, and eight in the back, so I used to borrow it a lot. It was an older car than anyone else’s family had, and almost any time someone wanted to plan some kind of thing, they’d show up at my locker and ask if I could get my uncle’s car.

We could cram as many people into one other person’s parents’ fake wood-paneled station wagon, but the Chevelle was cooler.

How about cramming six people in the back seat of an old Volkswagen? Did that, too. :grin: