We’ve done things you know about law and order and things you know about medicine and the like; what have you learned about history?
During the days of arranged marriages, pretty much all women rebelled when it was a man they didn’t love and ran off with the man they did love. Except for Romeo & Juliet, it usually ended well.
Puritans HATED sex or anything remotely like it. Even the ones who had 18 kids got them from prayer and herbal remedies.
As mentioned in other threads, whether in slavery or the Jim Crow south there was never any bond stronger than that of a black woman and the white kids she cared for.
Most Nazis sounded gay and held a cigarette between their thumb and forefinger when speaking English and menacing a POW. Luckily most were also incredibly stupid.
Muskets had an accuracy range of roughly 3000 yards and could be reloaded in about 8 seconds- 12 seconds if the soldier is charging on horseback at the time.