My SO seems to get the most pleasure when I’m gently bumping into the cervical opening. She currently is using the Mirena device (which she loves so far) which I can feel as I hit the cervix. Anywho, this gentle (and sometimes not so gentle) interaction with the cervix seems to give her the greatest pleasure. Could be coincidence that I’m also coming into contact with other areas that give pleasure but it doesn’t seem so.
Wow! I’d never heard of such a thing! Guess we’re going to have to change the title of this thread!
I didn’t believe girls could orgasm from anal sex until my current girlfriend convinced me.
This also varies a lot by women - I can’t stand a tampon - because anything close to my cervix causes cramps (or perhaps in the hundred or so tampons I’ve worn over the past 30 years when the uncomfort of a tampon is outweighed by the impractibility of a pad I’ve gotten it in wrong every single time) - so cervical bruising during sex … no… But people have different pain/pleasure responses - and pain/pleasure responses are really closely linked.
Really!? To what?!
Well, I just learned something about my same sex!
Oh, gotcha. I thought you were being facetious.
Outside stimulation or simply the penetration alone?
Generally, a safe bet.
Well, I wouldn’t say “penetration alone” but there’s no direct vaginal or clitoral stimulation going on, if that’s what you mean. What can I say? Her doorbell rings even from the back door.
I know this has been said before, but I find it hard to believe. Is this liquid as differentiated from other material? If I pull out a tampon a heavy day, it’s full, plus there’s at least a teaspoon of gel-like material behind it.
Maybe it’s the bloodiness that makes it seem like a lot??
There’s plenty of nerve endings in that area, and combined with the mental “dirty” aspect of it, yeah anal sex can definitely do the job. Having a girl that cleans herself out back there can be very fun. Clitoral stimulation makes it better though.
Oh, man. Flashback. Who was the poster here who insisted with increasing vehemence that the one and ONLY way that a woman could have an orgasm was if the man “power-sucked” her nipples? It might have been good ol’ JDT, but maybe not. Dang. That was some first-class crazy. I wish I could remember.
I’m pretty sure it wasn’t JDT. Only foreskins could make sex pleasant for women, you know.
(Seriously. He really argued that hands and mouthes could not possibly compare to the stimulation from foreskins.)
It was JDT, in response to Opalcat. The thread had detoured a bit by then. To be fair, I don’t think he claimed the sucking’d lead to an orgasm, more that Opalcat’s then-husband was doing it wrong.
TMI ALERT. Do not read beyond this sentence if graphic discussions of menstruation squick you out.
OK, so with regards to this whole “5 teaspoons per cycle” thing, I call BS. Maybe that’s true for some people, but it is certainly not universal. I’ve been using a Diva Cup for the last couple of years, and I can positively assert that there is way more than 5 tsp of fluid over the course of my cycle. I’m not keeping careful track or anything, but bare minimum, there is like 1/2 cup, easy.
My first girlfriend had her first period (menarche) when she was at summer camp. Nobody had told her what coming. Nobody had explained even a faint outline of how her system worked. She was in terror, and she thought she was dying. I think that was a reasonable assumption, under the circumstances.
FWIW, my berries hang evenly. I know this because I just ran into the office bathroom to make sure.
Ok, good. I was trying to think about it as a math problem; what is the surface area of a uterus, and what is the thickness of the lining being sloughed off, plus whatever other materials get ejected…
The things I’ve read have always said about 5 tsp of blood, which is distinct from menstrual fluid.