I always wonder what the motivation is of the people that apply so much scrutiny to self defense cases. It seems people are often hyper vigilant to any potential excess that anyone defending themselves makes in good faith in the heat of the moment in order to be lenient towards someone who violated the space and therefore threatened the life of the other person. I don’t understand the impulse at all.
When someone breaks into your home, they may only be looking to snatch your TV, but they may not. They may want to do all sorts of harms to you. As the person being surprised with an attack (often waking you up out of sleep although that may not be the case here) you have no idea what their intentions, capability, or even number are. Your fight or flight reflex is going crazy, you’re loaded with adrenaline, what you do in the next few moments could determine whether you, or your loved ones, live or die.
And yet people apply scrutiny to what you do as if they expect you to be a Navy Seal trained in zen buddhism with a perfect state of mind, with perfect awareness of what’s going on, and using only the absolute minimum force needed to repel the attack. There is no doubt that many times when someone in such a position has attempted to apply restraint to their response, it was insufficient to stop the threat and they and their loved ones were harmed because of their restraint.
The person breaking into the home of another is the one creating the one inflicting the harm and creating the dangerous situation for both parties. They do it with malice and intentionality. The blame for pretty much any sort of consequence short of the extreme is on them. The person defending their lives and the lives of those they protect, the one who had this situation thrust upon them unexpectedly and without any fault of their own, should be given every benefit of every doubt.
That isn’t to say that a person defending themselves can’t act excessively, but it would take a lot to convince me that they were. What we see in the video is absolutely consistent with someone whose adrenaline is through the roof, who is fighting to chase away a threat on instinct, and shows no malicious intent.
It’s certainly possible to use excessive force in a case like this, like if the homeowner hit him in the head with a frying pan and when the other guy was down on the ground unconcious he continued to beat him to death, that would make a reasonable excessive force use case, but what we see is not close to that. He’s still in the process of chasing a threat away.
But why are we trying to pin accusations of misbehavior on the guy who was thrust in the situation against his will for the benefit of someone maliciously broke into the home of the other? It’s so bizarre to me certainly people are always looking to do that and I don’t understand the motivation. Sure, some of it is ignorance of how scary it can be to be attacked in this way, and how much one can be caught up in the adrenaline of the moment and not to act perfectly, but there must be something more to it than that when people seem to care more about the criminal than the innocent.