Three people you've met

This is an extention from the “Three People You’d Like to Meet” thread.

Name three (or more, or less) people you always wanted to meet, and did! (They don’t even have to be famous, but share the story behind the meeting)

I’ll start (duh):

Nina Hagen: When I was 18, I snuck into the bar to hear her play. Since I have loved her since I was twelve, I approached her and voiced my appreciation. She was gracious and wonderful.

H.R. from Bad Brains: I saw then play when I was about 16. He was at the door talking to the ticket lady and I ran up to him, threw my arms around him muttering, “H.R., H.R.” and didn’t let go. He had to peel me off of him, but was a good sport and invited me backstage. (I didn’t go - I wasn’t THAT drunk)

Jello Biafra: A good friend of mine, Brian, is in a band that was signed to Jello’s record label (Alternative Tentacles). When Brian’s band (Pachinko) played in San Francisco, I showed up and so did Jello. Brian introduced me to him this way: “Jell, meet Mel. Mel meet Jell.” A funny thing about him is that he was wearing black jeans, a black turtleneck, a black leather jacket and a blond supermodel. Not at all what I thought he’d be like.

Honorable Mention: Desmond Dekker: Also saw him play in San Francisco - AMAZING man. I didn’t meet him, but seeing him play was a dream come true.

Oh my, jello biafra. I’d always heard he was kindof a joke in punk circles. Suppose he looked normal, tho.
I almost met Abbie Hoffman. In the 80’s he was doing debates with Jerry Rubin and was coming to Cleveland.
They didn’t sell enough tickets, so they cancelled! Crummy…

  1. The guys from “Pansy Division,” a gay garage band, believe it or not. I met them when they played Philly a few years ago, and they actually remembered the one letter I sent them praising their work. The next time they were in town they gave me “back-stage passes” (which didn’t amount to much), but, alas, I had a previous engagement and couldn’t attend that gig.

  2. Harvey Fierstein, playwright, actor and writer, when he did a Q&A at University of Pennsylvania. Just as nice in person as I thought he’d be. And that voice!

  3. Tom Baker, the fourth Doctor on “Doctor Who,” at a convention. Funny guy. :slight_smile:

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Ask the Gay Guy!

  1. Charlie Daniels: He gave the commencement speech at my grad school ceremony. Afterwards, I spent a few minutes getting his autograph and saying “hi.”

  2. Drew Barrymore: for story, see the “brush with greatness” thread

It’s great to get a chance to talk with people you’ve always wanted to meet, as opposed to famous people you never thought about one way or another untill you run into them.

  1. President George Bush. 1990(?) Malta conference PAO team. Interviewed him briefly for AFN television. Very boring.

  2. President Bill Clinton. Women’s War Memorial groundbreaking ceremony. Arranged for my Recruiter of the Year, who was female, to have her picture taken with him. Photographer was late. We spoke about the Vietnam Veteran’s Memorial. He knew the number of Arkansas names on the Wall and, to the dollar, the amount donated by Arkansans.

  3. Admiral Mike Boorda. Had two dozen 1/2 hour to hour conversations with the former CNO. He used to record his NAVEUR messages in my TV studio during layovers at Sigonella, Sicily. A nice man. Humble. Cared for his family nearly as much as his sailors.


Voted Best Sport
And narrowly averted the despised moniker Smiley Master

Forward deployed until 18AUG00

Hmmm . . . I can only think of two people who knocked me of my feet (figuratively speaking, of course).

Lillian Gish, probably the best all-time actress of the 20th century; and Jan Morris, one of the best travel writers and historians. Both grand gals; Jan Morris and I still stay in touch.

Man, I must lead a boring life…I can’t think of one famous or non-famous person that I have wanted to meet and did.

The sheltered lives techs lead… I’ve never met anyone famous either. But, if anyone wants to meet me, you can use me when this thread pops up ten years from now…

http://www.madpoet.com
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I hit Ctrl. Now what, eh?
Damn Canadians.

  1. Dizzy Gillespie
  2. Eric Ambler
  3. Timothy Leary

These were the three that I met that I actually ENJOYED the most. Even though all Doctor Leary wanted to do was drink bourbon and swap jokes.


Uke

As my web page should indicate, mine are people involved in science fiction.

  1. Samuel R. Delany. I first met Chip when he was lecturing at a nearby college. I always admired his books. Later, I got to hang out with him a few times at various science fiction conventions, and he once even attended when I gave a reading.

  2. Hal Clement. Science fiction legend. I first met him at a convention when I turned around and saw him sitting behind me. “That’s Hal Clement,” I thought, very discombobulated and never said a word. I met him again a few years later. By that time, my first fiction had been published. He took a picture of me and my wife and, a few years later, always loved to see our daughter growing up.

  3. Michael O’Hare. Met him at a con, too; we were on a panel together. Very nice man, and very private. Seems surprised about all the fuss.

Others I’ve met this way included Jane Yolen, Joan D. Vinge, Melissa Scott, Nancy Kress, Vincent DiFate (who shares my love of THEM!), Edgar Winter (briefly, at a Bridge Publications Party), George Zebrowski, Pamela Sargent, Terry Pratchett, Harlan Ellison (on the phone), A. C. Crispin (primarily through phone conversations), Jack Dann (before he moved to Australia), Esther Freisner, Raymond Feist, Gene Wolfe, and others.

Not to mention those SF writers I’ve met online (which include Wil Wheaton and J. Michael Straczynski).

BTW, if you go to SF cons you can build up a list like this, too. If you’re in the northeast, try Albacon 2000 (http://www.albacon.org).

“What we have here is failure to communicate.” – Strother Martin, anticipating the Internet.

www.sff.net/people/rothman

Diane Fienstein - Manny years ago, she would occasionally come into the sporting goods store where I worked (San Francisco). I sold her several pairs of shoes.

Robin Williams - Same sporting goods store, but he didn’t buy shoes. I think I sold him some skis once and did some ski-tech work for him on a couple of other occasions.

Robyn Hitchcock - I ran into him in the bathroom of Sweetwater in Mill Valley, CA. We talked for awhile about this and that. He dedicated my favorite song to me the next night at the Great American Music Hall. Alright, so nobody else knows who he is. So what? It was a big deal to me!


Free beer is ALWAYS a good thing. - Falcon

Listening to the Higsons? Brenda’s Iron Sledge? The Man with the Lightbulb Head? My Wife and my Dead wife?


Launcher may train without warning.

Ooo, OK, I came up with my No. 3—Ute Lemper, the brilliant German songstress (and the only gal I’d go gay for—my luck, she’s straight!).

Well, Can’t say I really wanted to meet any of these folks, but I have.

Jennifer Lopez- Soundfactory, NYC
John Popper- Melody Bar, New Brunswick, NJ
Matt Pinnfield- reg DJ at Melody Bar
Andre-one of the original Real World guys- Melody Bar, band used to play across the street at the Roxie
These people however, I did want to meet and have.

All of the Ramones- several times, one of my sisters dated one of the band members for a short while.

All of the Mighty Mighty Bosstones- several times-one of my sisters corresponded frequently with one of the band members.

Vince G.- Just once, looking forward to the second meeting.

I’ll buy that for a dollar.

  1. Ish Kabibble
  2. Mary Alice Brown
  3. F.X.Matt

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That’s not what she told ME!

Well, the big one was definitely Nobel Prize-winning poet Seamus Heaney, on a couple of occasions. The first time was as an undergraduate, when he spent several days on campus at Hendrix College doing readings, lectures, etc. He spent a couple of days with our creative writing workshop, so I was able to talk in a small group setting with him as well as hearing him read. A few years later, he delivered the first Richard Ellman Memorial Lectures at Emory University. I had dropped out of grad school at Emory by then, but was still friendly with a lot of the other grad students, and the readings and such were public events. I showed up for the first public event and got into a conversation with him afterward. He remembered me and his visit to Hendrix and invited me to a couple of other parties being given for him, including one hosted by a professor who didn’t much care for me, which gave me a special sense of having put one over. Great party (I may not have liked the host, but he did throw good parties), including a roast pig, a champagne fountain spewing margaritas, a mariachi band, etc., and a surprising number of opportunities for casual conversation with Heaney, Jon Stallworthy, and Michael A. Harper, who showed up later in the evening fresh from a reading at Agnes Scott College. Seamus Heaney is the one person I can think of I’d want to be if I had to be someone else: brilliant, one of the best poets in the English language in the last half-century, and an extremely kind, friendly, and humane man.

Second, then-Governor Bill Clinton, on the steps up to the governor’s office in the Arkansas State Capitol in 1980. I was with a church youth group and we bumped into him, alone, walking up the steps. He stopped and spent several minutes shaking hands and talking. While his administration as president has been profound disappointment to me almost since his taking office, as a sixteen-year-old at the time I admired him (and I still believe that Arkansas would be a far worse place even than it is if he hadn’t been governor for twelve of the fourteen years from 1978 to 1992).

The third probably won’t mean much to anyone else, but it was a significant event for me at the time, and makes a decent story. On my college radio show, I frequently played tracks from the first Swimming Pool Qs album Off the Deep End. After college, I moved to Atlanta, and sometime later ended up working as a proofreader for an advertising agency. The agency also owned a design firm, and one of the staff designers was Swimming Pool Qs’ keyboardist and vocalist Anne Richmond Boston. I noticed her name on the phone list right away, but since the design firm was three floors down from the agency office, I didn’t have a chance to bump into her for a while. Finally, it happened that the design firm needed a large brochure proofed, so I went down, picked it up and reviewed it. It had been through lots of copy revisions by this point, as well as a couple of redesigns, so that the the sheaf of 11x17 paper I had to take back down was fairly substantial. As I walked into the elevator area of the lobby, I noticed that one of the elevators was starting to close. I dashed over, and relying on my experience with other elevators (I was still new at this job, and hence to this building), I stuck the brochure into the rapidly closing elevator doors, expecting the physical resistance to cause the doors to re-open. However, these doors had only a light sensor, positioned about one third of the way up. My bundle of papers was inserted almost halfway up, and failed to break the light beam, with the result that both the inner and outer set of doors closed on the papers. I’d just had time to digest this fact when the elevator car began to move downward, taking my bundle with it. I managed to hold onto the papers tightly enough that while they did slip downward almost to the ground, they eventually pulled free of the elevator car itself. One small victory, at least, but I was still left hunched over, clinging to the bundle of papers, now just above the level of the floor, so that I must have made a somewhat curious spectacle for Anne Richmond Boston as she rounded the corner and came over to press the down button for the elevator. I recognized her immediately, and realized that whatever I might say would inevitably be colored by her first impression of me. I did manage to express an appreciation for her work as we rode down together after the elevator doors finally released the brochure, but I don’t think I ever ran into her again that she didn’t have a sort of smirk on her face.



“Ain’t no man can avoid being born average, but there ain’t no man got to be common.” –Satchel Paige

Well, the big one was definitely Nobel Prize-winning poet Seamus Heaney, on a couple of occasions. The first time was as an undergraduate, when he spent several days on campus at Hendrix College doing readings, lectures, etc. He spent a couple of days with our creative writing workshop, so I was able to talk in a small group setting with him as well as hearing him read. A few years later, he delivered the first Richard Ellman Memorial Lectures at Emory University. I had dropped out of grad school at Emory by then, but was still friendly with a lot of the other grad students, and the readings and such were public events. I showed up for the first public event and got into a conversation with him afterward. He remembered me and his visit to Hendrix and invited me to a couple of other parties being given for him, including one hosted by a professor who didn’t much care for me, which gave me a special sense of having put one over. Great party (I may not have liked the host, but he did throw good parties), including a roast pig, a champagne fountain spewing margaritas, a mariachi band, etc., and a surprising number of opportunities for casual conversation with Heaney, Jon Stallworthy, and Michael A. Harper, who showed up later in the evening fresh from a reading at Agnes Scott College. Seamus Heaney is the one person I can think of I’d want to be if I had to be someone else: brilliant, one of the best poets in the English language in the last half-century, and an extremely kind, friendly, and humane man.

Second, then-Governor Bill Clinton, on the steps up to the governor’s office in the Arkansas State Capitol in 1980. I was with a church youth group and we bumped into him, alone, walking up the steps. He stopped and spent several minutes shaking hands and talking. While his administration as president has been profound disappointment to me almost since his taking office, as a sixteen-year-old at the time I admired him (and I still believe that Arkansas would be a far worse place even than it is if he hadn’t been governor for twelve of the fourteen years from 1978 to 1992).

The third probably won’t mean much to anyone else, but it was a significant event for me at the time, and makes a decent story. On my college radio show, I frequently played tracks from the first Swimming Pool Qs album Off the Deep End. After college, I moved to Atlanta, and sometime later ended up working as a proofreader for an advertising agency. The agency also owned a design firm, and one of the staff designers was Swimming Pool Qs’ keyboardist and vocalist Anne Richmond Boston. I noticed her name on the phone list right away, but since the design firm was three floors down from the agency office, I didn’t have a chance to bump into her for a while. Finally, it happened that the design firm needed a large brochure proofed, so I went down, picked it up and reviewed it. It had been through lots of copy revisions by this point, as well as a couple of redesigns, so that the the sheaf of 11x17 paper I had to take back down was fairly substantial. As I walked into the elevator area of the lobby, I noticed that one of the elevators was starting to close. I dashed over, and relying on my experience with other elevators (I was still new at this job, and hence to this building), I stuck the brochure into the rapidly closing elevator doors, expecting the physical resistance to cause the doors to re-open. However, these doors had only a light sensor, positioned about one third of the way up. My bundle of papers was inserted almost halfway up, and failed to break the light beam, with the result that both the inner and outer set of doors closed on the papers. I’d just had time to digest this fact when the elevator car began to move downward, taking my bundle with it. I managed to hold onto the papers tightly enough that while they did slip downward almost to the ground, they eventually pulled free of the elevator car itself. One small victory, at least, but I was still left hunched over, clinging to the bundle of papers, now just above the level of the floor, so that I must have made a somewhat curious spectacle for Anne Richmond Boston as she rounded the corner and came over to press the down button for the elevator. I recognized her immediately, and realized that whatever I might say would inevitably be colored by her first impression of me. I did manage to express an appreciation for her work as we rode down together after the elevator doors finally released the brochure, but I don’t think I ever ran into her again that she didn’t have a sort of smirk on her face.



“Ain’t no man can avoid being born average, but there ain’t no man got to be common.” –Satchel Paige

Well, the big one was definitely Nobel Prize-winning poet Seamus Heaney, on a couple of occasions. The first time was as an undergraduate, when he spent several days on campus at Hendrix College doing readings, lectures, etc. He spent a couple of days with our creative writing workshop, so I was able to talk in a small group setting with him as well as hearing him read. A few years later, he delivered the first Richard Ellman Memorial Lectures at Emory University. I had dropped out of grad school at Emory by then, but was still friendly with a lot of the other grad students, and the readings and such were public events. I showed up for the first public event and got into a conversation with him afterward. He remembered me and his visit to Hendrix and invited me to a couple of other parties being given for him, including one hosted by a professor who didn’t much care for me, which gave me a special sense of having put one over. Great party (I may not have liked the host, but he did throw good parties), including a roast pig, a champagne fountain spewing margaritas, a mariachi band, etc., and a surprising number of opportunities for casual conversation with Heaney, Jon Stallworthy, and Michael A. Harper, who showed up later in the evening fresh from a reading at Agnes Scott College. Seamus Heaney is the one person I can think of I’d want to be if I had to be someone else: brilliant, one of the best poets in the English language in the last half-century, and an extremely kind, friendly, and humane man.

Second, then-Governor Bill Clinton, on the steps up to the governor’s office in the Arkansas State Capitol in 1980. I was with a church youth group and we bumped into him, alone, walking up the steps. He stopped and spent several minutes shaking hands and talking. While his administration as president has been profound disappointment to me almost since his taking office, as a sixteen-year-old at the time I admired him (and I still believe that Arkansas would be a far worse place even than it is if he hadn’t been governor for twelve of the fourteen years from 1978 to 1992).

The third probably won’t mean much to anyone else, but it was a significant event for me at the time, and makes a decent story. On my college radio show, I frequently played tracks from the first Swimming Pool Qs album Off the Deep End. After college, I moved to Atlanta, and sometime later ended up working as a proofreader for an advertising agency. The agency also owned a design firm, and one of the staff designers was Swimming Pool Qs’ keyboardist and vocalist Anne Richmond Boston. I noticed her name on the phone list right away, but since the design firm was three floors down from the agency office, I didn’t have a chance to bump into her for a while. Finally, it happened that the design firm needed a large brochure proofed, so I went down, picked it up and reviewed it. It had been through lots of copy revisions by this point, as well as a couple of redesigns, so that the the sheaf of 11x17 paper I had to take back down was fairly substantial. As I walked into the elevator area of the lobby, I noticed that one of the elevators was starting to close. I dashed over, and relying on my experience with other elevators (I was still new at this job, and hence to this building), I stuck the brochure into the rapidly closing elevator doors, expecting the physical resistance to cause the doors to re-open. However, these doors had only a light sensor, positioned about one third of the way up. My bundle of papers was inserted almost halfway up, and failed to break the light beam, with the result that both the inner and outer set of doors closed on the papers. I’d just had time to digest this fact when the elevator car began to move downward, taking my bundle with it. I managed to hold onto the papers tightly enough that while they did slip downward almost to the ground, they eventually pulled free of the elevator car itself. One small victory, at least, but I was still left hunched over, clinging to the bundle of papers, now just above the level of the floor, so that I must have made a somewhat curious spectacle for Anne Richmond Boston as she rounded the corner and came over to press the down button for the elevator. I recognized her immediately, and realized that whatever I might say would inevitably be colored by her first impression of me. I did manage to express an appreciation for her work as we rode down together after the elevator doors finally released the brochure, but I don’t think I ever ran into her again that she didn’t have a sort of smirk on her face.



“Ain’t no man can avoid being born average, but there ain’t no man got to be common.” –Satchel Paige