Nitpick: tipping is not outrageous in Japan, it’s just politely but firmly declined. Taxi’s are the one exception I know of. The drivers may not expect it, but it’s always welcome. Usually just rounding up.
I remember the episode of Leave It to Beaver where the Beav has to take a cab home, and the driver gets huffy when the tip is only a nickel. Beaver shames him for trying to “take free money away from a kid.” That was broadcast in 1959.
I also remember Fred Astaire playing a con artist in The Towering Inferno (1974), and the first indication that he’s not an above-board guy is when he stiffs a cabdriver.
It’s funny that the OP talks about tipping bus drivers. I wouldn’t tip a city bus driver, but the driver of an airport shuttle usually gets a tip from me. That’s … sort of a bus.
It was a thing in Harry Chapin’s song Taxi (Chapin had driven a cab before becoming a performer) when Sue said, “Harry, keep the change.”
I think it has been ubiquitous in the USA since the beginning of the cab industry, it certainly is in novels set in the depression and going forward. Of course, spy novels and detective novels aren’t textbooks, but it’s a common enough plot point
Where DON’T they tip cab drivers? I’m very curious now.
In Australia.
You may tip your cab driver: you have permission to do so. You will probably let the driver ‘keep the change’ even if you are not an American Tourist. But your kids (on their own money), will certainly expect to be given change.
In Shanghai, I was amazed that the driver casually and without prompting gave change. After driving from the airport to the hotel. I wasn’t expecting that from an Airport ride. In every country, I expect airports to attract the criminal element of drivers.
I can’t think of a single country where we were told not to tip drivers at all.
Singapore. I lived in Indonesia for 17 years, where you tip everybody. I didn’t mind much, but I must say that my frequent trips to Singapore were kind of a nice break - for a few days I didn’t have to constantly monitor my wallet to be sure I had the appropriate denominations of cash to hand out for just about every service interaction.
How exactly is, ‘you’ll probably let the driver keep the change’, anything but tipping?
Tipping less, isn’t the same as NOT tipping.
I’ve tipped every cab driver I’ve had in Singapore, just a couple of dollars, but it’s still tipping.
How exactly is, ‘you’ll probably let the driver keep the change’, anything but tipping?
If it’s an even amount like $20, they get nothin’.
That said, we were given guidance when we traveled, and I can’t think of a single country where we were told not to tip drivers at all.
Israel.
I mean, they’ll take a tip if you offer one - if you wanna give away your money, that’s your problem - but it’s not expected.
This is kind of a poll, So I’m putting it here.
When did tipping cabdrivers become a tradition? I mean… Tipping your cab driver? Really?
I’ve googled it, and read a little bit about it, but let me know what your take is.
Uh, always?
Have you never used a cab before?
How exactly is, ‘you’ll probably let the driver keep the change’, anything but tipping?
How exactly is " But your kids (on their own money), will certainly expect to be given change." tipping?
Your kids getting change is clearly NOT tipping, of course.
But that doesn’t change that the times when you say, ‘keep the change’, it pretty clearly is tipping. What else could you call it? Its tipping by every definition, I’m pretty sure.
It’s funny that the OP talks about tipping bus drivers. I wouldn’t tip a city bus driver, but the driver of an airport shuttle usually gets a tip from me. That’s … sort of a bus.
About the only sort of bus driver I don’t tip is a city bus driver. Airport/hotel shuttle drivers get tipped, chartered bus drivers get tipped, tour bus drivers get tipped.
But that doesn’t change that the times when you say, ‘keep the change’, it pretty clearly is tipping. What else could you call it? Its tipping by every definition, I’m pretty sure.
Kind of depends what “keep the change” actually means. If the bill is $18 and you pay with a $20 and say “keep the change”, that’s a tip. If the bill comes to $19.45 and you pay with a $20 and say “keep the change” , that’s not a tip so much as you don’t want to be bothered with 55 cents in change
But that doesn’t change that the times when you say, ‘keep the change’, it pretty clearly is tipping. What else could you call it? Its tipping by every definition, I’m pretty sure.
You’re right of course: it is the norm for wealthy American expatriates in Australia to tip 20c + on $75 taxi fares.
It’s been the norm for over a hundred years.
cab drivers have always been tipped.
Uh, always?
(My apology to several other posts that I didn’t include.)
When I was a kid in the 1950s, my paternal grandfather told me that when he took a taxi he would ask in a naive voice, “Do people still tip cab drivers?” They would assure him that it was still done.
Tipping drivers is a norm. I’m wondering when we went to tipping Subway employees…though I feel like a douche for even having that thought out loud. Service workers need the money, clearly.
Tipping drivers is a norm.
Tipping in the US was loudly denounced when it started to become the norm in the years after the Civil War, but yeah, it had become pretty firmly established by the early 20th century.
When tipping began to spread in post-Civil War America, it was tarred as “a cancer in the breast of democracy,” “flunkeyism” and “a gross and offensive caricature of mercy.” But the most common insult hurled at it was “offensively un-American.”
Loathed as a master-serf custom of the caste-bound Old World that went back to the Middle Ages, tipping was blamed for encouraging servility and degrading America’s democratic, puritanical, and anti-aristocratic ethic. […]
A 1901 editorial in the Chicago Times-Herald congratulated Mark Twain for refusing to tip a cab driver, and added, hyperbolically, that should the writer lived to “claim credit for its abolition[,] he will deserve greater gratitude from the public on that account than for anything that he has written or ever may write.” […]
The tipping abolitionist campaign came to a boil in 1915, when three states (Iowa, South Carolina and Tennessee) passed anti-tipping laws, joining three other states (Washington, Mississippi, and Arkansas) that had already passed similar bills. Georgia soon followed. By 1926, however, all these anti-tipping laws were repealed […]
When William Howard Taft, who prided himself on never tipping his barber, ran for president in 1908, he was projected as “the patron saint of the anti-tip crusade.” […]
Over time, however, the opposition to tipping faded. “Tipping eventually became more entrenched in American life than in any other country,” writes Segrave.
(Emphasis added to highlight relevance to the OP.)
In the US? My entire life and I’m 55. My first cab ride was in 1990 or so.
My entire life, and I’m 61. And I drove a yellow cab in NYC back in the early 80s.
I’m wondering when we went to tipping Subway employees…
We didn’t… That’s not a thing. Sure you can drop your coins in a jar if you want to but that’s not tipping as it’s used for cab drivers and waiters.