Don’t give me all that bullshit about how you do. Maybe if you are over 28 or so that’s true, but I’ve been around the block long enough to see how all the jerks in the world prosper. I’m a 24 year old male. I’ve had 3 sexual relationships so far, and all have been with women 29+.
Now that I’ve shared my info, I know the usual rebuttal also to my OP, “but nice guys aren’t nice, they are just wimpy and weak.” Well, I will grant you that some are, but excuse me if I toot my own horn for a while,
Here comes the self-aggrandizement, but I am one hell of a dude. I am far from bad-looking, I am confident, witty, and emotionally astute. When I love a girl, I value her happiness over my own. Is romance dead? I don’t shy away from pain if that means helping me or my love, so it’s not like I’m some weak fuddy-duddy or anything. I’m just tired of being passed over for Jonny-come-comecomecome in his motorcycle or w/e.
I have had nice girls like me before for a while, but in the course of courtship they always find some reason not to be with me. I’m not going to list my faults (although I have many), because everyone has flaws. I’m sick and tired of being single because I know myself and I damn well know I’m an awesome piece of meat. I am funny, smart, and I care for my girl more than the world. I try to practice agape towards everyone, and sadly that seems to cost one in life.
If this keeps up, I don’t know if I can keep being nice. I have sexual needs just like anyone. As it stands now, I’m getting a 4-pack and a nose job and fuck anyone who thinks me worse for it. Good looks make people feel unconsciously happier, and if I was bugged to find links I could. I don’t mean for this to be a pit rant but god I am angry so fuck fuck fuck FUCK.