To the big guy with the sharp instruments

From long experience, I should have known better. I should have sensed the foreboding, the atmosphere of doom that surrounded me the moment I walked through the door. I should have known, long before you picked up the scissors, how badly you were going to mangle me.

I want my hair back, goddammit!

I called ahead for an appointment with A***, my regular hair-person. She’s not spectacular, but I don’t need spectacular. I just need a regular, guy-type haircut. She does it well. Nice shampooer, too. And I needed her, just now, I needed her bad. She makes me feel almost good-looking when I walk out of there. And lately, I’ve been trying for that. So, I called. Made an appointment. No problem.

Then I got there, six hours later, and somehow, she was booked. That’s when I should have walked out. I realized, too late, that the only one there who had the time to cut my hair was… this guy. Late 80’s heavy-metal haircut, huge gut hanging over the waistband of worn jeans, sweatstained polo shirt… I don’t know what I was thinking.

A long time ago, in Georgia, I learned a valuable lesson about life. Don’t let an Oriental woman named Peaches cut your hair. Tonight, I learned another, equally valuable one. Don’t let anyone who part-times as a bouncer at a blues bar cut your hair.

So, to the ogre with the shears, this rant…

In which universe does the phrase “I’m trying to let it grow out” translate to “Shear me like a Buddhist sheep?” How did you manage to mishear “Just clean it up a little bit” as “I want to look like Moe from the Stooges?” Where the hell did you get your training, Bob’s House O’ Butchery? You miserable fucknugget, I don’t need to spend the next three weeks frightening small children and passers-by with the chunks of my scalp you managed to expose. I look like the nice men in white cut my hair to keep me from pulling it all out. I look like some freak military experiment to see if they could actually come up with a haircut for new recruits that would make them look stupider than the current standard issue. I look almost as idiotic as you, you pus-sucking, self-felching assmuffin. The best possible use for your barbers’ tools would be to stuff them whole into all of your orifices, turn them on, let them run for a while, then short them out, you whorelicking ratpenis. May you die the Death of a Thousand Papercuts, with Lemon Juice, for the horror you have inflicted upon humanity, and may the afterlife hold nothing for you but reliving the agonies you have inflicted upon your miserable victims. You fartgulping, pitsniffing, phlegmlicking turdburger.

And now that it’s late enough that I won’t run into too many people while doing my little Quasimodo imitation, I have to go out and get some hair gel. I hate hair gel. I despise it. But if I slick my hair back, I just look like a deranged lunatic, instead of a retarded deranged lunatic who probably has an axe on him somewhere.

This looks like a good time to post this link again (one of my all-time favourite sites, and at least marginally appropriate to your rant).
(Oh yeah, sorry about the hair. Cheer up; you could be Michael Jackson after the doctors took the bandages off after the last round of surgery. At least yours will grow back. :D)

Reason #359 not to let straight guys cut your hair. I still have a mullet thanks to the last straight guy who got ahold of a pair of shears behind my head.

I only let ONE lady cut my hair. she hasn’t fucked it up yet :slight_smile:

GO SUZY!

Wait until she moves or dies, then you’ll be really screwed. I had this gay guy cutting my hair for about five years, then he just vanished. No one knows where he went, and his phone number has been shut off. So for the past 3 or 4 months I’ve been looking for someone who can cut a good flat top. Everyone I’ve gone to so far, about six different people, has no clue how to cut a flat top. Some cut it too military style, some have problems following my instructions, and others just do a terrible job like failing to match the right side with the left. I’m still looking for a good flat top person in Seattle. I have a feeling my search will be a long and painful one.

There’s only one kind of straight guy that is allowed to touch my hair, the Italian Barber. My fave was Lou from Lou’s Cut and Style, he did security at RPI Hockey games in his spare time. You’d get the “Yo, how the fuck you doin’?” when you walk in, to cool.

OK, the site about jamming scissors into your crotch made me laugh uncontrollably, at which point my housemate’s boyfriend mumbled something about me delcaring a jihad on my crotch. That just made me laugh harder, of course.

Esprix

Cheesesteak, can I just say that every single time I see a post of yours my mouth waters? It’s disturbing.

I mentally picture you as a gigantic pile of freshly grilled steak shavings piled atop your fresh, chewy roll, your gooey melted cheese enveloping your meat, with your onions, mushrooms and peppers, all of you covered in salt with a dash of tabasco, the entire affair freshly prepared and still steaming.

And then I realize that I’m actually fantasizing about eating a fellow member of the SDMB, and I am chastened. Anyway, I wanted to let you know that you drive me nuts.

And every time I see your name, WL, I am overwhelmed by the desire to run out and find illegally produced STRONG-ass liquor!:smiley:

Oh god. Not losing a good hair cutter. (I won’t bother with stylist, as I don’t have a style)

After the last two wonderful people I found left I gave up. (Hence the waist length no bangs ‘style’ I currently wear) About once a year ish I’ll have some bored friend hack a few inches off the bottom to keep the split ends away.

when I really grow up I might find a new hair person. But I’m afraid. Very afraid.

Reminds me of college…

There was an old-fashioned barber shop in the square that only charged $9, so naturally it was popular with the students. There were about a dozen young men and women working there, all of whom were very good at giving a nice, simple haircut.

Then there was Enzo. (so named from the Seinfeld episode)

Enzo was the 80-year-old owner of the shop. He was sweet guy, told great stories about when he first came to America, but he just could not cut hair worth a damn anymore.

With so many people working there, the odds were in your favor. But every once in a while one of our roommates would come home with some godawful dead-badger-looking thing on his head, and all we could say was, “Enzo?”, to which the afflicted one could only nod sadly in reply.

And Astroboy14, when I see your name, I’m overwhelmed by the desire to… well, nothing really.

–sublight.

I like your hair. :wink:

On a relevant note, however, I was chased out of Abilene, Texas on account of a haircut. Seems the cut made me look like kd lang, and since kd lang wears that kind of haircut, and she’s a lesbian, and I had that same haircut, I must be a lesbian, too. (People in Abilene aren’t known for being overly concerned with logic and reason.)

Just my evil haircut story.

Robin

I only let one woman cut my hair:
Me.

Ah… the joys of a new barber. Last night’s fun and games:

glasses come off

“The first time it was a little too long,” I said. “A little shorter this time.”

time passes, she finishes, glasses go back on

“Um… usually I don’t wear it that short.”

“Oh, you’ll like it.”

I literally ran a red light shortly after leaving because I was reaching for my missing hair and thinking, “I can’t believe she cut it that short!” (It was a quick yellow, that’s the ticket.) I’ve had it close to being this short before, but never quite so porcupine.

[silver lining]
On the plus side, I can roll the windows down in my truck with absolutely no fear.
[/silver lining]

Back when I actually had hair, I used to actually watch what the Barbrer was doing, and if I didn’t like what they were doing, I told them so.

If you were letting your hair grow out, why didn’t you say something when he started hacking huge chunks off?

Why didn’t you get up, or say “stop?”

Did you pay the guy?

Hopefully you didn’t leave a tip.

I think it likely that this may have been a codependant bad haircut.

I have the misfortune to be poor and a screaming queen at the same time. Although I’d like to pay $20 for a haircut from some fabulous gay guy in the Village, it’s just not feasible. So I used to get really decent haircuts (for $11 a pop) at this salon that caters mostly to Black women, but they cut everyone else’s hair really well too. But that place caught fire (!) and I don’t know when they’re reopening. In the meantime I’ve had to go with the straight Italian guys and they’re nowhere near as good, unfortunately. My last haircut looked like Stockwell Day’s. shudder

Well, at least it’s good to know that I’m not alone in my sudden tonsorial hideousness. Thank you all for your kind words of support, or your unkind words toward equally inept hair-care-people. It made me feel all warm, but not fuzzy, as I don’t have enough hair left to feel fuzzy anymore.

You know things are bad when all your own mother can say is “It’ll grow out. Hair grows out really fast in the summertime. You’re lucky this happened in July.”

I’ve heard “It’ll grow out” at least seven times this morning. And the day is yet young.

And Scylla, you’re right. It was all my fault. I allowed him to lull me into complacency by taking his time very carefully doing the sides, in a meticulous, professional fashion. I didn’t question him when, as he started on the top, he turned me away from the mirror. I didn’t grab his hand and stop him as my Amazing Psychic Scalp-o-Meter detected that he was cutting way too much off the top. I didn’t yank the scissors out of his hands, and threaten him with bodily harm if he didn’t do it RIGHT, right NOW. I didn’t backflip over the chair, Matrix-style, and kick his ass when I saw what he did. I see now that I was wrong not to do so, and that my quest to be ever more like Scylla is doomed to be fruitless. So, fuck it, I’ll just keep trusting professionals to do their jobs well, and treat them politely in the hopes that they’ll give me good service, instead of being the pushy jerk that I should be.

Scylla don’t get no haircuts anymore.

He don’t need them.

Not enough hair.

So screw you, you bastard. “It’ll grow out,” is no longer a truism for myself!

(Ohhhh, he suckered you. Sorry to hear that.)

If it’s that bad I would go so far as to suggest shaving your head.

I love my hairdresser, this Vietnamese lady has been cutting my hair for the past three years and she has never given me a bad cut. She does good head.

When I run out of hair to cut it will be just me, some soap and a razor. No comb overs for this guy.

Well, he may not be able to cut hair, but he is flexible, doggone it!

I got a hair cut in 9th grade that literally made me cry for 2 days. I refused to go to school the next day for fear of the hazing I’d get from one Jimmy R*** (names deleted to protect the guilty). I envisioned all sorts of tortuous comments and being a soft-hearted gal, I quaked in fear.

What did I get when I got on the bus?

“Hey, Kennedy [maiden name], I like your hair cut. It looks good.”

:rolleyes:

I still hated the cut, but that at least made things a little easier to bear. But then he was back to calling me names and trying to see my underwear under my skirt so I guess things didn’t change that much. :smiley: