Maeglin: Your entire comprehension of my post was just plain wrong.
If you’ll point out to me where I said she WASN’T being insulting or heavy handed I’d appreciated it.
What I DID in fact say was that people like Collounsbury were being big babies by attacking someone who in their grief lashed out. In otherwords sometimes it’s ok to set aside the intellectual pretension and accept that someone is having a real problem that justifies not having the most calm response. YMMV on this one.
Ahh, but the nasty vitriolic personal insults back because she may have hurt their poor little feelings, are justifiable? Fine you want to defend these elitist kindergartners, go ahead. Chique’s OP may not have been the most diplomatic way to say things, but I hardly think that justifies comments like “Get a job and support your own hobbies”.
People say nasty things when they are hurt, and I’m sorry to hurt people’s logical brains but sometimes mental and physical hurt ARE justifications to act distraught or even downright irrational.
How you determine that is up to you. If you think Collounsbury and his peers were reasonable in their vitriolic response to a slight attack on their persona, then that’s fine. I just think they are assholes.
If when my uncle died of cancer and I came online blaming it on Agent Orange and posted a diatribe about certain people in our country enabling a government to do that to him, I seriously doubt I would have gotten the same vitriolic anger. What she’s going through is a very serious issue for her and her family, and I think pointing out that people in the third world have it worse is just plain low-class.
So I guess that’s my problem, these people chose a really bad to point out once again how little class they have.
As I pointed out before, there were MANY posts that pointed out where they felt that Chique was in error, without being nasty and bitter that she called libertarians a bad name. It just amazes me that someone as smart and educated as Collounsbury can have such a low self-esteem about their knowledge that when someone even vaguely attacks part of their identity they feel so threatened that they must attempt to hurt that person.
Erek
