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Nah. Going back over the whole exchange, I can see several points at which each of us misread what the other had said. If I actually lay out the whole sequence of mixed signals, I’m just going to get more denials and insults from you and it would not be worth my while to go through the effort just to watch you play that game, again.
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Hmmm. You know, in a debate things will often be misconstrued, misread, or misunderstood, and further discussion can usually clear those up those innocent mistakes. Then there are areas in which there is a genuine, substantive disagreement, in which cases it is sometimes prudent, and healthy, to simply agree to disagree.
But then there are direct, clear personal attacks, like you calling me a liar. Some of us take such accusations seriously, as they go to character and transcend any particular debate, and do not make them lightly. If we do make such an accusation and are then called on it, we feel it incumbent upon us as a matter of honor to substantiate the accusation. If unable to do that, or especially if it has been proven to us that the accusation was in error—as I have proven to you—we feel a strong urge to admit the error and apologize. For those of us raised with a deep respect for honesty, this is as much benefit to us as the accused.
Now, I’m of the mind that such a respect for honesty, like many issues that go to one’s character, is like the ability to handle a basketball well: if you don’t aquire it early in life it’s doubtful you will be able to aquire it later. So, I guess it would be harsh of me to hold you to account for something your parents apparently did not value nor spend time instilling in you.
Of course, I could be wrong about this and your parents valued honesty and character as much as any parents did and this type of behavior on your part is some twisted, desperate attempt to be rebellious. I have no way of knowing really. I can just see your actions and call them for what they are: low and despicable.
Now, for the final time, you made an accusation and called me a liar. I showed you that you were in error in doing so. Acknowledge it, and apologize.
Alternatively, please explain what the fuck is so hard about doing that? Seriously. You’ve even admitted that we both “misread” stuff. Why not take that next step and admit that you made the specific error of calling me a liar? And then take that final step that some vertebrates take and apologize for such an erroneous insult?