dutchboy208, part of the confusion arose because you were referring to the needed module as a PCI card, which it isn’t. It’s literally just a rear-panel bracket with a RCA phono jack and an S-video connector. No other circuitry at all, so I’d even question whether it deserves the title of daughterboard.
It does, however, take up a slot on the PC’s rear panel that would otherwise be used by a PCI or AGP card, which is why they make it optional. Most users would rather have the option of having all five PCI slots (and one AGP slot) available rather than have a dedicated TV out connector taking up that rear-panel real estate.
Of course in an ideal world they would include this rear-panel bracket in the box with the motherboard. However, as transitionality points out, the 50 cent saving keeps AOpen’s accountants happy.
You should be able to get the right part easily by calling AOpen, but you may find that it’s too much hassle. That 50 cent part may become $20 with profit margin, shipping etc, and you may have to wait several weeks.
Fortunately, you can build such a thing yourself (or get a friend to do it for you). How are your soldering skills? The manual for which you provided the link shows the pinout of the 6-pin connector (2 rows of 3) on the MB. If you want regular coax video out, just solder a coaxial cable to the connector with the signal to pin 1 (“composite”) and the shield to pin 3 (“ground”). Buy an RCA female panel-mount connector from Radio Shack, and drill a hole for it in the back of the PC Case (this is easier than making up a rear-panel bracket since PC cases are usually aluminum but blank PC brackets are stainless steel – the former is much easier to drill).
Be sure that the PC is disconnected from the 110V (not just turned off) before doing this!
If your DIY skills are not up to stripping and soldering coaxial cable, use regular unshielded hookup wire – it’s unlikely that much noise will be picked up in the couple of inches between MB and case.
If you want to use the S-video, it’s a bit more work, but the same principle applies. An S-video connector uses two signals (“Chrom” and “Luma” on page 38 of the manual) and two grounds. You just need to be able to physically connect to the 6-pin “TV output connector” pins – there is no extra circuitry needed.