I feel ultra-silly for asking this, but it’s been three years since the wife and I were last in Hawaii, and I need to have my facts straight. So here goes.
Some background: I know a British man who has a Thai wife. They have a daughter aged about 17 or 18. She’s just finished high school, I believe. I’ve never met the wife or the daughter, because they live up North. My friend is based in Bangkok for business reasons; he spends a week or two at a time down here, then goes back up North for a few days.
A few days ago, the daughter returned from the US after spending three months in Seattle on some sort of high-school work-abroad program. She and several other Thai high-school students worked at the Seattle airport for three months. No school involved, strictly a work program. This sort of program is popular in Thailand.
While there, the daughter got herself an American boyfriend. The boyfriend is in an army family, his father stationed on Oahu. (Not sure what the kid was doing in Seattle.) So the family took the daughter off to Hawaii with them for a week. She had a very nice time. All well and good.
Her father, my British friend, knows I went to school in Hawaii and mentioned some of her experiences to me. Two things he said, though, were a bit on the bizarre side. For one, he said that she said they drove to another island. I told him no way, you can’t drive anywhere from Oahu. He said not to a major island maybe, but rather some sort of small island offshore. I said no. I have heard of that new ferry service they started since our last visit. Possibly that was it.
So Question #1 (two parts): I know the answer to this already, but I want official confirmation: Have they built any bridges to anywhere at all from Oahu in the last three years? If it’s the ferry she took, do they allow cars onto it? He admits he may have got this part wrong, because he did not have much time with her before he loaded her onto her flight back North, but he’s certain she did not fly anywhere once she arrived on Oahu.
Question #2: He is absolutely certain she said this. She took lots of photos in Hawaii, but not at the Arizona Memorial at Pearl Harbor, because “they don’t allow photo-taking there, it being a graveyard.” I’m thinking: “What the fuck?” There have never been any photo restrictions whatsoever at the Arizona Memorial that I can remember, and the wife and I have plenty of shots of it from even three years ago. But he’s certain she said that, and I suppose there’s a slim chance that some sort of restriction could have been introduced within the past three years. So: Are there now any photo restrictions at the Arizona Memorial at Pearl Harbor?
My friend is a very nice man, and I don’t want to be confrontational. I don’t want to be all “Hey, your daughter is a liar or an idiot!” But this has had me scratching my head. I’m not going to mention it unless he brings it up again, but if he does, I want to be able to say: “People who now live in Hawaii have told me this and this.” He’ll see his daughter again in another week or so, so maybe this will all be cleared up on its own anyway.
Thanks in advance.