The existence of a four-dimensional geometry, with three dimensions of space and one of time as described by Einstein, has been verified experimentally in the sense that clock time measurments do indeed vary according to his equations. This can be interpreted in two ways, and the big question is which one is correct:
- Is this the geometry of space itself? This would mean, for example, that if you blow up a balloon and then let it deflate, the shape of the balloon includes how long the balloon stays inflated the same way it includes how big the balloon got.
Taken literally, this implies Fatalism. To see why, consider replacing “inflated balloon” with “your life”… But the very definition of a law of physics is that motion A by itself causes motion B, so that if A happens and B doesn’t, that’s evidence that something else happened (e.g., The apple didn’t hit the ground because you caught it.) Fatalism, however, would mean that there could someday be an apple that would stop in midair for no reason, simply because that motion happens to be part of the shape of the universe. But in that case, everything that has ever been discovered about physics, from Einstein all the way back to cavemen learning how to throw stones, is just luck. The biggest reductio ad absurdum ever!!! 
- Is this the geometry of motion through space? This would be more like time as we know it, in the sense that the air in the balloon doesn’t form a closed four-dimensional shape until the balloon has deflated.
There’s a problem though: If everything is part of an unfinished shape of events, where is the open edge of events? It would seem that you could answer this just by looking at your watch and seeing what time it shows. But that would answer it only for the location of your watch. Even if you did this for every object in the universe, it still wouldn’t explain how relativity can work, because it would also have to apply to the space between them. But the space between them doing what? Moving through space?
There are two common ways of getting out of this dilemma:
A. You can assume that looking at your watch is as far as it can go, because that’s good enough to define the edge of what you observe. But this would be a different path through time than anyone else’s, so the only way to get a sensible physical theory out of this is to postulate an observer of everything. Some people like this idea, such as the people in the Templeton Foundation. :rolleyes:
B. You can assume that there actually is a sense in which space is moving through itself. But would this moving space be Aether? Would it be Dark Matter? Or what? Your guess is as good as mine or anyone else’s, so there’s no way to flesh this out into a good theory.
This is where Occam’s Razor comes in. There are two definitions of time, and no way to choose between them without making a mess. So why not just take both? If one of them is a dimension, then call the other a dimension too!