Renob, I wonder if you have any personal experience with applying for SSDI or know anyone personally who receives it.
VR might be great for someone who, say, can’t walk or can’t see as well as most. You can teach (please, not “train,” that’s for animals) a person to do a desk job or deal with new blindness, or any number of other things. Heck, I could lose the use of both my legs and one arm and still do my job as long as I had one hand, eyes and a brain.
How do you “train” a person who on three random days of the week (on average) will be incapable of leaving the house or of interacting with other people, to have a steady job? Exactly what job would you “train” a person for if that person will have debilitating physical pain most of the time? Are you familiar with the symptoms and treatments for, say, kidney failure? CFDS? Bipolar disorder?
The statement that SSDI is for people who “don’t want to work” is insulting. As you can probably tell, I have close friends on SSDI who would really, really like to work but cannot, and no amount of “training” is going to change that.
Why should chronic back pain NOT be a disability? Have you ever had it? Do you know what is needed in order to gain relief from it? Do you know how hard it is to do meaningful work when you can’t stand, sit or walk without pain? Do you know what the pain medicine does to your mental state? Sure, sometimes there can be workplace accomodations, but not as often as you might think.
Do you know a lot of employers who want a person who can only work, say, 10 or 20 hours a week, who will on any given day at random need to be excused for flareups, therapy visits and other medical intervention? Who is going to be out of work a lot dealing with side effects of the medicine that is helping him/her to remain somewhat sane and rational? Who sometimes can deal with customers and co-workers professionally and on other days cannot prevent outbursts of frustration with anything less than perfection, and on still other days spends a third of the day in the rest room crying?
Actually, a Down Syndrome person might be among the easier disabilities to match up a job with, although it might not be a high enough paying job for one to support oneself on. I’ve seen people who seem to me to have either that or a similary disability bagging groceries. They do just fine, are pleasant and friendly, and can be taught to do that sort of job responsibly.
I really and sincerely hope that neither you nor any of your friends and relatives ever have to deal with disability. However, if at some point that is not the case, please remember how unsympathetic you are now, repent and ask forgiveness.