I personally believe life exists almost everywhere in the galaxy. The only problem is that 99.9% of this life is slime mold.
No, I take that back. Slime mold would be way too advanced.
Imagine every year you role a die to see if you get a certain type of life. The basic of life evolving from non-life looks pretty good. About 1:100,000,000 chance of life emerging from non-life per year. It sounds like terrible odds, but if you’re talking about billions of years, a measly 100 million to 1 is pretty good odds. I base this inference upon the only place where we’re absolutely sure life exists: Earth. Life on Earth began almost as soon as the earth was cool enough to support life. It seems if you have liquid water and a safe place away from ionizing radiation, you can pretty much guarantee life will evolve.
Going from single cell life to multicellular life is a very long shot. The Earth had nothing but single celled organisms for almost 3 billion out of our 4 billion year existence. If some other alien civilization visited us a billion years ago, they would have looked around, said “Ew gross” and left. Life didn’t start getting interesting until a bit more than 500 million years ago with the Cambrian Explosion. That puts multicellular life emerging out of single celled life at around 3 billion to one chance of happening.
And if you talk about intelligent life, the odds are also bad. We had complete evolution of synapsids, their destruction, a new dinosaur evolution, their destruction before we got to mammals and their overly large brains. Reptiles, Amphibians, and even the warm blooded synapsids and dinosaurs did just fine without a lot of metabolism wasting brain power. And out of of all the various families of mammals, only two families seem somewhat capable of more advanced intelligence. Not great odds, and our species may have almost been wiped out during one of the glacial periods. If the weather was a bit worse, we wouldn’t be around.
I haven’t really taken to trying to plug this into Drake’s Equation, but I suspect that the number of intelligent species in this galaxy isn’t all that much greater than 1, and great distances separate us. There’s a Goldilocks Zone in galaxies where you cannot be too close to the center (too much iodizing radiation) or too close to the rim (not enough materials) in order to form life. That means there’s only a thin band around the galaxy capable of forming life. It’s likely large distances safely separate intelligent species to keep them safely away from other intelligent species who they’re going to pick fights with. If that’s not proof for an overall intelligent designer to the universe, I don’t know what is. Galactic conquest and anal probes are out of the question.
However, as rare as intelligent life is in this universe, I bet having a large enough moon at just the right distance and with just the right orbit is even rarer. I suspect that light speed traveling aliens have seen canyons wider than the grand canyon, mountains taller than Everest, and seas bigger and grander than the Pacific. They probably don’t have too much interest in our boring little planet. But a solar eclipse like we get? That’s special. Your best bet for finding an alien among us it to go to the next totality solar eclipse and look around. And being in Missouri at the last solar eclipse, I can guarantee they’ll fit right in.