More of this words that were never said horseshit.
Nobody implicated that at all.
The challenge was to see if they had the absolute gall to tell a grieving family it was better their spouse/parent/sibling/friend was dead instead of the suspect that killed them. And what a terrific person it would be that would do something like that.
Perhaps you should even protest the funeral like those nut job churchies used to do for soldiers. It might help you get your point of view out to the public.